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Should I buy my retirement home now or wait 5 years?

Buying a second home years before retirement forces you to juggle primary housing, taxes, and ongoing work while managing two separate locations. This often means paying for a mortgage or HOA while still renting near work, leaving you to weigh whether buying now or waiting until retirement makes better financial sense.

Overview
People affected5 accounts across 2 forums
Workarounds found6 items attempted
Community agreement5 total upvotes

What the numbers show

Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count

  • The most recent one is from October 2026.
  • This comes up 28.4× more often in r/homeowners than across the site as a whole.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

Found another way around this?

Share your steps and trade-offs so fellow engineers don't have to reinvent the wheel. No account required.

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    Waiting five years until retirement to buy a home
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    Using home sale proceeds as a down payment with small withdrawals for a mortgage
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    Paying cash upfront to cover monthly expenses while continuing to rent
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    Continuing to rent an apartment
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    Investing savings into index funds instead of buying real estate
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    Budgeting out savings to travel or enjoy remaining years while renting
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/homeowners3 people · October 2026

“Do you like paying condo fees for the rest of thy life, in exchange for not having to mow a lawn?”source ↗

Cyberdink · r/homeowners · 3 upvotes

“The only reason I would buy a condo instead of continuing to rent an apartment is to stabilize my housing expenses a bit.”source ↗

berrysauce · r/homeowners · 1 upvotes

“One thing to check before you commit: the building's finances. A cash purchase doesn't protect you from special assessments, and an aging condo building can hand you five figures overnight.”source ↗

Salvatore-John · r/homeowners · 1 upvotes
r/personalfinance2 people · September 2026

“I (M59) want to buy a second home closer to ocean with a budget of 900k. This is to establish a place where we can retire eventually peacefully when we turn 67 me and 64 wife.”source ↗

“Do you think I can keep both places 2 hr apart from each other and make it to retirement.”source ↗

AcademicHedgehog7239 · r/personalfinance

“We are considering buying a forever home now. The forever home is far enough away that we would still need to rent for work.”source ↗

“Would it make sense to just pay cash to ensure monthly cash flow pays HOA/Taxes/Rent? Perhaps the $175K as down payment and small withdrawals for a mortgage?”source ↗

“The other option; Just wait another 5 years and buy then? Ideally 401K would be bigger and could pay cash then?”source ↗

“I’m guessing housing prices won’t drop too much over next 5 years.”source ↗

xcrunner1988 · r/personalfinance

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