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How to clean a room when you are too depressed

Extreme burnout and depression make basic tasks like taking out trash or getting off the mattress feel paralyzing, leaving spaces heavily neglected. This deep fatigue stops people from tackling clutter all at once, trapping them in an overwhelming environment where even small cleanups seem impossible.

Overview
People affected43 accounts across 3 forums
Workarounds found88 items attempted
Community agreement7,458 total upvotes

What the numbers show

Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count

  • Most of it landed at once — the busiest month was September 2026, with 27 people.
  • This comes up 20.9× more often in r/CleaningTips than across the site as a whole.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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  1. 1
    Hiring professional house cleaners
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  2. 2
    Taking things one hour or one day at a time
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  3. 3
    Using plastic mattress covers as temporary fixes
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  4. 4
    Hiring professional trash removal services
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  5. 5
    Reading Atomic Habits
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  6. 6
    Resetting a space immediately after use
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  7. 7
    Tackling small areas for instant gratification
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  8. 8
    Having a friend come over to help clean without judgment
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  9. 9
    Using power tools like drill brushes or orbital sanders with pads to save time and physical effort
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  10. 10
    taking it one step at a time over days or weeks
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    focusing on cleaning for the sake of pets
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  12. 12
    using huge trash bags and sorting items into categories like keep, trash, goodwill, and paper clutter
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  13. 13
    sweeping everything into the center of the room to bag or sort later
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  14. 14
    going through the house room by room or area by area over several days
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  15. 15
    stuffing items into bags for life to make surfaces manageable and putting things away later
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  16. 16
    Hiring a housekeeper or maid service
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  17. 17
    Following a rigorous cleaning schedule
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    Continuously decluttering and donating unused items
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    Adopting daily habits like putting things away immediately rather than setting them down
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    Start small by picking up broken glass, clearing the sofa, unpacking boxes, and removing floor hazards
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    Moving items into a separate storage space to work through them gradually
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    Getting rid of a portion of the items directly from the home
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  23. 23
    Loading up a bag of trash once or twice a week to throw away
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  24. 24
    Paying a couple hundred bucks to have junk haulers drag the bags out
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  25. 25
    Dumping half-full soda cans and disposable cups into the toilet
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    Tidying up as you go along
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    Putting items away right away after use
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    stacking items when they do not have a dedicated spot
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    renovating or clearing out the house to evaluate what is actually needed
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    keeping a designated box handy to collect items for donation over time
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    Watching time-lapse cleaning videos for motivation
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  32. 32
    Cleaning while listening to or watching companion cleaning content
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  33. 33
    Breaking tasks down into tiny steps like cleaning just one dish or item at a time
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    Focusing on clearing small open areas like finding the floor
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  35. 35
    Using apps to prioritize chores by urgency
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  36. 36
    Setting a timer for a short, set amount of time (e.g., 20 minutes) per task
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    Carrying items that don't belong when leaving a room
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  38. 38
    Breaking large cleaning tasks into small, manageable sections (e.g., 4-foot sections)
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    Decluttering excess items and establishing a specific home for every belonging
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    Opening the curtains, picking up laundry first, making the bed, removing trash, and taking breaks.
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    Taking things in small sections like a grid
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    Setting timers for short intervals like 5 or 10 minutes
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    Focusing only on throwing away trash first
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    Listening to music, podcasts, or shows while working
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    Crowd-sourcing the executive function and order of operations
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    Doing slow decluttering ahead of time
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  47. 47
    Hiring movers to take things to storage and then move into the apartment on separate days
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    renting a roll-off dumpster bin
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  49. 49
    cleaning with a mask and gloves
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  50. 50
    tackling one room at a time, starting with sleeping areas and the bathroom
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    hiring expert help if budget allows
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  52. 52
    shoving items into the closet
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    taking small breaks
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    tackling small sections at a time
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    bagging or boxing items to live with them for a week or two
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  56. 56
    trying to pick up as you go
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    cleaning around the mess and accepting that the whole house isn't going to be perfectly picked up first
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    picking one spot to keep picked up during the week
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    adding more hampers where clutter tends to pile up
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    Binning containers with no purpose or expired items
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    Folding clothes better to save drawer space
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  62. 62
    Following the rule of putting things away instead of just putting them down
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    Using the reverse Marie Kondo method to decide whether to keep an item
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    Clearing one surface at a time and donating, selling, or binning excess items
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  65. 65
    Holding off on indoor treatments
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    Trying to find a way to prep the room without doing a deep clean
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    Working in small chunks with baskets and bin liners
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  68. 68
    Using a shovel and big trash can to clear bulk waste
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    Wearing PPE like gloves, masks, and disposable coveralls
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    Scrubbing by hand with anti-bacterial solution and enzyme cleaner
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  71. 71
    Hiring a professional to sand and refinish the flooring
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  72. 72
    Putting on headphones and powering through the cleaning process
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    Doing dump runs to dispose of accumulated items
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    Breaking the cleaning process down into sequential categories like trash, laundry, and dishes.
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  75. 75
    Reading books on managing a household while overwhelmed.
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    Using vertical fabric drawer dressers to sort items
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    Starting with an easy category like expired makeup, skin products, or old underwear
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    Tossing things that have reached the end of their lifecycle without donating
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    Throwing out one bag of items daily without over-planning
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    Prioritizing the removal of 'biohazards' like trash and dirty dishes first.
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    Picking a corner and moving clockwise around the room.
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    Choosing one small spot and moving items to an empty area to sort them.
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    Committing to putting away just 10 things a day.
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    Reading resources like 'How to Keep House While Drowning'.
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    turning on a 'clean with me' video in the background for motivation
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    starting with just a single black garbage bag for obvious trash
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    breaking the task down into specific categories like trash, dishes, and laundry
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    making DIY pest traps with apple cider vinegar and dish soap
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/CleaningTips39 people · November 2025 – November 2026

“I have pretty awful depression and bad ADHD with task paralysis. I have three kids, two with disabilities and I really struggle with parenting and with keeping house.”source ↗

sillyruckus · r/CleaningTips · 1,625 upvotes

“So true my wrists were screaming for help”source ↗

borrowedurmumsvcard · r/CleaningTips · 1,292 upvotes

“as someone who is not the most clean himself, it does take a lot to even accept help from someone else.”source ↗

DevilsPajamas · r/CleaningTips · 1,003 upvotes

“I put on some headphones and just powered through this.”source ↗

ManicPixieDreamGoy · r/CleaningTips · 851 upvotes

“Been there. Same set up. Mattress on the floor, one dresser, and suckling Franzia straight from the twist spout. Toss the empties aside because I'm too depressed to go to the dumpster.”source ↗

_Gonna_Die_Alone_ · r/CleaningTips · 706 upvotes

“sometimes all you can do is stack things up bc they don’t really have a spot”source ↗

pumpkinpie4zaynmalik · r/CleaningTips · 427 upvotes

“I used to hide my moldy dishes in the pantry when my then-bf came over”source ↗

AdmirableDebt7335 · r/CleaningTips · 334 upvotes

“Some of us know how paralyzing it can be to clean when we are depressed.”source ↗

AsparagusKlutzy2596 · r/CleaningTips · 236 upvotes

“Does anyone have any tips for getting this floor clean without damaging it further?”source ↗

ManicPixieDreamGoy · r/CleaningTips · 232 upvotes

“Being in a depression that affects us like this is a huge downward spiral loop that is really hard to break.”source ↗

angelmr2 · r/CleaningTips · 230 upvotes

“I needed to see this, that it's possible, because I'm overwhelmed. Every drawer, every surface, cabinet, closet, half my bed. It's too much”source ↗

Defiant_Let_268 · r/CleaningTips · 110 upvotes

“my grandma is a hoarder and won’t get rid of anything and we are supposed to be moving into her house.”source ↗

“we literally don’t know what to do at this point and im just looking for tips or for someone to give advice”source ↗

Odd_Kaleidoscope3596 · r/CleaningTips · 89 upvotes

“It gets to a point where all the things you thought you needed will never actually be used or enjoyed and you're essentially creating a warehouse which will weigh heavily on your emotional health and also make everyday tasks harder to achieve.”source ↗

ohyonkavich · r/CleaningTips · 51 upvotes

“Unfortunately I don’t have a before pic, but my room was in piles. I was staying in bed a lot, and not really doing anything.”source ↗

“Even after so much work, it’s still a dump.”source ↗

Numerous_Cress_737 · r/CleaningTips · 49 upvotes

“Then the weekend comes and I feel like I spend basically all of Saturday and Sunday just picking everything up, washing clothes, loading the dryer but also hang drying some clothes, folding clothes, putting things back where they belong and organizing.. when I’m done it’s nice but the problem is that I never get to the ACTUAL cleaning I wanted to do”source ↗

gdgrlgna · r/CleaningTips · 36 upvotes

“My question is how?? Is it just retirees (with excellent health/energy) attaining this? I want it and want the secrets, lol.”source ↗

Honest-Acanthisitta · r/CleaningTips · 30 upvotes

“I'm coming out of a very deep depression that has led to my room looking like this. Could you give me some advice, please?”source ↗

Tough_Honey9718 · r/CleaningTips · 26 upvotes

“My problem is to get there I let things pile up too much and I get overwhelmed that I have to end up doing a deep clean.”source ↗

k177yyy · r/CleaningTips · 21 upvotes

“I look around the place and I just don't even know where to start anymore.”source ↗

GentlyUsedOtter · r/CleaningTips · 18 upvotes

“Idk how to declutter and it’s overwhelming”source ↗

“I can’t declutter but the clutter is sensory overload. I’m neurodivergent and I don’t know where to start.”source ↗

“What is the best way? I need tips, tricks the whole library for how to declutter in order to keep things cleaned.”source ↗

Alt_Southern_Rebelle · r/CleaningTips · 12 upvotes

“I feel like I am drowning.”source ↗

“At home, its too overwhelming, but if I do this, I feel like I might have more success.”source ↗

AnjettaTheMom · r/CleaningTips · 9 upvotes

“plenty of times I manage to clean up and organize things the right way, but I end up with a pile in middle of the room, and I never really get rid of the things that pile up..”source ↗

CheapAmericanLabor · r/CleaningTips · 8 upvotes

“As a person who has been stuck in adhd “functional freeze” for a month now, OP’s persistence (FORTY THREE DAYS IS AMAZEBALLS!) and bravery is so inspiring.”source ↗

SnooOnions973 · r/CleaningTips · 8 upvotes

“I am at the point where I'm starting to panic.”source ↗

“Unfortunately, my room is a neckbeard nest. *Again*.”source ↗

“I look any deeper and I want to die because all that I've done feels like it's amounted to practically nothing.”source ↗

“I just cannot keep a personal space clean for the life of me.”source ↗

“I have nightmares about people discovering my room. It's by far my greatest shame.”source ↗

greasysweet · r/CleaningTips · 7 upvotes

“I'm too ashamed to share pictures, sorry :( But there's clothes everywhere, empty bottles and envelopes, things on the floor and every surface...”source ↗

“Where do you start when you have a complete mess? Focusing on one zone? Or from bigger to smaller? I'll take any advice.”source ↗

“I've always struggled with order and I'm a bit of a hoarder so I could use a few cleaning tips.”source ↗

Just_takealook · r/CleaningTips · 5 upvotes

“I need to clean my rented room urgently but I have no clue where to start.”source ↗

“if I think about it for too long I get so overwhelmed I cry. I don't know how to just get up and start.”source ↗

waterwillowxavv · r/CleaningTips · 3 upvotes

“Also should I get rid of the sofa. It isn't a living room. It's a outer room separate from my house”source ↗

AbjectConstruction90 · r/CleaningTips · 2 upvotes

“Have to do a quick downsize relocation, Cleaners of Reddit, what is my order of operations?”source ↗

“After a prolonged time-pressured search, am downsizing from a 1400 sq ft 4 bedroom house (One bedroom is used as a tiny home office) into a 2.5 bedroom apartment”source ↗

“My work schedule means I have about 4 days to devote to this task before moving day. I come home from work extremely tired due to a long commute.”source ↗

“House is rather a mess as it is, due to some health issues affecting my energy levels.”source ↗

JeNeRegretteRien5026 · r/CleaningTips · 2 upvotes

“My bedroom is roughly 6ft by 9ft with a built in closet that acted as a "catch all" for random stuff for a while.”source ↗

“I'm incredibly overwhelmed and I don't really know where to start since I don't have another room I can move items to as I clean.”source ↗

“Since I can't put anything in another room and I can't put any clean clothes away until I can reach my closet I don't know how to proceed.”source ↗

My_Chemical_Killjoy · r/CleaningTips · 2 upvotes

“No matter what I do what I declutter, more stuff comes in and it gets messy again”source ↗

Cute-Protection-1859 · r/CleaningTips · 2 upvotes

“In the meantime, just trying to train my kids to clean up after themselves.”source ↗

Honest-Acanthisitta · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“Following for the comments, because I feel like I need to do this same thing.”source ↗

Icy_Definition5044 · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“I try but always fail at cleaning and putting away items as soon as I'm finished with them so they pile up”source ↗

LLHandyman · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“that’s exactly how i am! thats why im asking for tips🤣”source ↗

DaisyMwah · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“I personally flip flop between the two. I got an app that basically prioritizes all the chores that I need to do by urgency.”source ↗

Aggravating_Unit3975 · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“I try to sweep every day and I vacuum like once a week if I can get the motivation and the house isn't too overwhelming”source ↗

k177yyy · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“I am still making progress as a messy person. I have also embraced my messy a little because it serves a purpose for me.”source ↗

MGTB2021 · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“Also appreciate you being nice I’m clearly not okay”source ↗

halebopsalot · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“LOL thank you for this I’m in the dark place and I got a squidward tattoo the other day”source ↗

halebopsalot · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“we have been out there cleaning for the last 3 days every day we come back it’s the exact same mess, she won’t stop going through the trash we have thrown away”source ↗

Odd_Kaleidoscope3596 · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“I think my one problem with the body care is I bought most of it this year and then said what am I doing and stopped but now I have a lot of new body care”source ↗

Cute-Protection-1859 · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“Nope I have the same problem in my whole house!!”source ↗

Pleasant_Raisin178 · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“His room was a pigsty before, and he refused to do anything about it. When he got out of that room, he left it a mess still.”source ↗

Donttouchmybreadd · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“Also if youre really having a hard time, start with something you have no attachment to like maybe your expired kitchen spices or whatever category is easiest.”source ↗

wutsmypasswords · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“I always have some reason for not throwing out or getting rid of. It’s too big “well, I might gain weight.” Too small “I might lose weight” toys are just too many so I don’t know where to start.”source ↗

Alt_Southern_Rebelle · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“so I’ve been struggling with mental health and have been neglecting myself for a while.”source ↗

“I’m not just “being lazy” I genuinely feel grossed out with myself and I can’t even sleep in here sometimes. I turn to the wall for the sole reason of not wanting to see what I’ve done.”source ↗

EpicNOFXFan · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes

“yeah my room is covered in garbage.”source ↗

EpicNOFXFan · r/CleaningTips · 1 upvotes
r/cats3 people · September 2026

“Does anyone else’s living room look like a paper recycling facility?”source ↗

RainbowMage81 · r/cats · 9 upvotes

“Absolute filthy CATastrophe, how is this remotely sustainable???”source ↗

First-Enthusiasm-679 · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“My mum came round and asked why there was paper bags, cardboard boxes and toilet roll tubes in my living room…. Told her ahhh that’s just the cats stuff!”source ↗

History_86 · r/cats · 1 upvotes
r/Pestcontrol1 person · September 2026

“I don’t want the exterminator to see my messy room, but I also know that’s a prime spot for them and I don’t want more.”source ↗

Sufficient_Fig1308 · r/Pestcontrol · 3 upvotes

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