What to do when a student threatens or assaults you at school
When students threaten, hit, or assault teachers, schools often dismiss the violence as a disability manifestation or fail to impose consequences, leaving staff injured without support. This lack of institutional protection stops educators from knowing how to press charges, navigate legal steps, or safely handle violent behavior on the job.
What people tried
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What to do when a student threatens or assaults you at school
- 1Resigning from the positionDid this help you?
- 2Filing a police report instead of formally pressing chargesDid this help you?
- 3Dropping the issue or choosing not to pursue legal action due to the hassleDid this help you?
- 4Filing police reports independently despite administrative discouragementDid this help you?
- 5Reporting unsafe working conditions or school retaliation to OSHADid this help you?
- 6Pushing for teacher safety language in union contractsDid this help you?
- 7Sending news stories to the student's case managerDid this help you?
- 8Asking administration about extra steps to protect studentsDid this help you?
- 9Accepting the risks as part of the jobDid this help you?
- 10Relying on negotiated union contracts for safety guaranteesDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“after I and *so many* of my fellow special education teachers have been seriously injured with \*zero\* action, we know we are.”source ↗
“In my five years of being a teacher at one school, I've known four different coworkers who have been physically or s*xually assaulted by students, and in every one of those four instances, the incident was written off as a "manifestation of the child's disability."”source ↗
“Most recent incident involved a kid hitting a teacher so hard they got a concussion.”source ↗
“Yesterday my favorite teacher friend at the high school where I work got threatened. A freshman boy yelled, "I'm going to fkn kill you!"”source ↗
“Has anyone had the experience of being threatened and pressing charges? I'm curious as to what the next steps are and what she should expect.”source ↗
“A few days ago, he threatened to slit another student's throat.... All they did was give him 3 days of in school suspension.”source ↗
“As you can imagine, my coworkers and I are very uncomfortable and I feel like our students are not safe as long as this boy is in our school.”source ↗
“What other recourse do me and my coworkers have? I'm genuinely shocked administration enrolled this student.”source ↗
“I'm worried that it's just a matter of time before he gets his hands on another gun and brings it to school.”source ↗
“A student broke my thumb and wasn’t even sent home for the day. I had to use a sick day to go to the clinic that day because they said I should have come back to school to finish the day”source ↗
“One time at my old elementary school one of my fifth graders nearly dislocated my finger. Absolutely zero consequences for him. Meanwhile, I was forced to apologize to him”source ↗
“Our negotiated contract states we are entitled to a safe working environment. Everyone also knows those of us in SPED are the exception.”source ↗
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