7 year old won't go to sleep because of nightmares
Exposure to scary movies or schoolyard ghost stories can trigger screaming nightmares that disrupt a child's sleep for months or even a year. Even when children know the characters are fake, their unconscious minds make the threat real at night, causing them to experience racing thoughts, refuse bedtime, and hide everyday objects like dolls or mirrors.
What people tried
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- 1Providing a consistent bedtime routineDid this help you?
- 2Reading books before bedDid this help you?
- 3Using a Tonies box for bedtime audioDid this help you?
- 4Using several night lightsDid this help you?
- 5Showing behind-the-scenes footage or blooper reels to break the illusionDid this help you?
- 6Watching special effects makeup shows to show how monsters are madeDid this help you?
- 7Making the scary character into a joke by buying a plush versionDid this help you?
- 8Teaching the child about filmmaking techniques and camera anglesDid this help you?
- 9Creating an empowering 'defense plan' for the house to make the child feel secureDid this help you?
In their words
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“When I was 9 ish my aunt put on Child's Play. I had a my buddy doll and to say I was traumatized is an understatement. I hid all my dolls, and had screaming nightmares for a year. It didn't matter that I knew it was fake. My unconscious mind would make it real every night.”source ↗
“When I was a kid I looooved horror movies but couldn’t sleep at night because I’d get scared so I’d watch blooper reels of the actors messing up their scenes.”source ↗
“When I was a kid, I was DESPERATELY scared of the monsters and killers I saw in movies.”source ↗
“I know it is horrific as I remember not sleeping for months after being told about bloody mary at school.”source ↗
“I was that kid that was terrified of horror movies and all things scary. No dolls allowed in the house after seeing chucky, no mirror in my room, etc.”source ↗
“The past year or so my 7 year old daughter has been complaining about nightmares. Won’t go to bed because she said her head is racing and thinking of nightmares. Wakes up in the middle of the night and comes to our room.”source ↗
“i would definitely be seeking some sort of help if my 7yr old hasn’t been sleeping normally for a year”source ↗
“My 9 year old step son got exposed to the movie Halloween at his mums house and is now petrified of Michael Myers and can't sleep.”source ↗
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