Why teachers can't break up school fights
Teachers step back from physical altercations because they fear a lack of support if injured and the risk of being sued by parents for touching students. This leaves educators facing severe safety risks and unmanaged student violence without institutional backing.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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- 1Staying back and clearing the areaDid this help you?
- 2Calling for school resource officers (SRO) or admin supportDid this help you?
- 3Yelling to get them to chill outDid this help you?
- 4Sending students to guidance when rumors of a fight startDid this help you?
- 5Contacting union representatives for safety proceduresDid this help you?
- 6Getting medical notes from an OB/GYN for bed rest or short-term disabilityDid this help you?
- 7Refusing to allow the child in the classroom and demanding administrative re-placementDid this help you?
- 8Switching classrooms or relying on supportive teammatesDid this help you?
- 9Evacuating the classroomDid this help you?
- 10Filing workers comp claimsDid this help you?
- 11Filing police reports for assaultDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I am 11 weeks pregnant. I had multiple miscarriages last year so I wasn’t planning on sharing my news for awhile. No one at work knows yet.”source ↗
“I had a student punch me and I got my doctor to write a note for partial bed rest. I went on short term disability and even then my baby was born a month early. It saved his life.”source ↗
“I just am exhausted and don’t know what to do.”source ↗
“My stress is off the charts.”source ↗
“I just don’t know how much longer things can go on like this.”source ↗
“I had a violent student (6th grade) who threw things at other students in my class and myself. I basically told my admin either he goes or I go.”source ↗
“How common are fights at your school? I work in a public high school, and things have been quite bad regarding fights since the pandemic.”source ↗
“I had a coworker who miscarried in her second trimester because she was kicked in the stomach by a student.”source ↗
“I left my special education role due to the lack of support and staff... being in my 2nd trimester I didn't want to risk it.”source ↗
“No, we stay back because we 1) won't be supported by the school if we get hurt trying to separate the kids, and 2) will get sued by the parents for touching their kids.”source ↗
Where this came up
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