Should I let my young kid read about 9/11?
Allowing an advanced child to read about heavy historical events like 9/11 risks triggering anxiety, particularly around flying, but banning the book often makes it more forbidden and enticing. Parents fear traumatizing them with mature themes, yet withholding guidance leaves kids vulnerable to stumbling across graphic videos or distorted peer stories without context.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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- 1letting them read it and answering questions as they come upDid this help you?
- 2Avoiding the subject or telling the child they are too youngDid this help you?
- 3Keeping explanations general and waiting until they get olderDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“Here is my struggle- he really wants to read "I survived 9/11".”source ↗
“As someone who vividly remembers 9/11 (I was in high school), this feels so much heavier to me than the other books.”source ↗
“We also fly a few times a year, and I don't want him to think about planes crashing or hijackings.”source ↗
“But I also know that by denying him the book, I've made it so much more interesting to him.”source ↗
“I’m torn about how to handle it.”source ↗
“another part of me is genuinely scared of traumatizing him.”source ↗
“there’s a good chance he could eventually stumble across graphic videos or images--or hear/see a much less thoughtful version of the story from another kid.”source ↗
Where this came up
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