What do you get a kid that they still use months later?
Kids frequently request toys they do not actually enjoy playing with, leaving items like Lego sets and dollhouses abandoned in bins or used as laundry storage within a week. This disconnect between what children ask for and what holds their interest leads parents to waste money on clutter instead of finding gifts that are used long-term.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
- 1Gifting experiences like zoo memberships, amusement park trips, or family adventure days
- 2Buying outdoor gear like bikes, scooters, and roller skates that get daily physical use
- 3Giving consumable craft supplies, bath bombs, or lotions that get used up instead of taking up space
- 4Stopping the purchase of casual toys on normal days so birthdays feel genuinely special
- 5Give easy reader books or themed storybooks.
- 6Hand out decorated cookies that match the party theme.
- 7Provide small consumable items like themed snacks, finger paints, or balloons.
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“The big Lego set has been opened once. The dollhouse thing she begged for is now a landing pad for dirty laundry.”source ↗
“I want to stop wasting money on stuff that ends up in a bin by the following weekend.”source ↗
“What do you even get a kid that they still use months later?”source ↗
“With my son we realised there was a disconnect between what he asked for and what he actually likes. He'd frequently ask for lego, be given lego but him doing lego was something he clearly didn't like.”source ↗
“I don’t want to add to junk or things not used—any ideas for favors?”source ↗
Where this came up
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