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How to fire someone without warning

Terminating an employee out of the blue triggers intense emotional fallout and severe reactions. This sudden displacement destroys an individual's immediate livelihood and leaves them with no closure or preparation.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Ignoring or working around issues instead of confronting them
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    Firing employees on the spot for behavioral or attendance issues
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    Negotiating severance packages
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    Looking out for yourself first and avoiding getting overly attached to an employer
  5. 5
    Refusing to give more time or effort than what is strictly expected

In their words

Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.

I fired an employee out of the blue yesterday with no warning, and she had an entire crash outsource ↗

I feel terrible bc she is crashing out and I just destroyed someone’s livelihood with no warning.source ↗

TiredAsATwinMama · r/smallbusiness · 737 upvotes

What I wasn’t okay with was being told, in the same conversation, that it was also my last day. No notice, minimal severance (now under negotiation), and no real closure with my colleagues.source ↗

lexmz31 · r/nonprofit · 197 upvotes

President gives an all staff meeting about how we’re an organization of “love” and a “family,” a week later replaced because the new manager they hired wanted to bring in their friend from their last job.source ↗

dzebs48 · r/nonprofit · 18 upvotes

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