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Stuck in my job at 55 with no ladder to climb

Getting a raise often requires moving into a leadership role, which is difficult when your people-management experience is twenty years out of date. Meanwhile, current employers frequently admit there is no internal path for advancement or fail to deliver on promised new positions. This leaves older professionals trapped having the same stagnant conversations every year, afraid to brave an awful job market that might judge their age.

Overview
People affected4 accounts across 2 forums
Workarounds found6 items attempted
Community agreement21 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Taking lateral roles that pay less
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    Seeking private mentorship or networking through direct messages
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    Window shopping for jobs by quietly setting LinkedIn to 'open to work' for recruiters
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    Staying put and focusing on high-visibility initiatives like security or disaster recovery to get noticed by upper management
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    Shifting focus to driving measurable business change to build an undeniable case for promotion
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    Taking certifications to continue self-improvement while remaining in the stagnant role
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/ITManagers2 people · November 2026

“I’ve been told I’d be moving into a currently non created position for about four years, yet nothing has come of it.”source ↗

“I’m tired of having the same conversation every year with whomever my supervisor is at that point in time, but I also know the job market is awful and so maybe I shouldn’t be complaining and just be thankful to have a job.”source ↗

ta_sysadmin_ · r/ITManagers · 12 upvotes

“Sounds very similar to my experience, where i was in a role for 8 years, built an IT department, implemented numerous changes, projects, etc.”source ↗

“Got to the point where I could have stayed for the long haul, but decided to challenge myself by moving on.”source ↗

easyna · r/ITManagers · 1 upvotes
r/nonprofit2 people · October 2026

“I feel like I've reached the ceiling of what I can accomplish as a web professional in my current role.”source ↗

“when I tried initiating a professional development conversation with my boss, he was blunt in saying there is no ladder for me to climb in my current role.”source ↗

“getting paid more means aiming for a leadership (Director or Associate Director role) with people management as the main feature of the job. I've managed people before but it has been close to 20 years since then”source ↗

“I am 55 years old. As a job seeker in the tech aspect of nonprofit work, I wonder what my chances are for advancing my career in this job market and at my age.”source ↗

etnader · r/nonprofit · 6 upvotes

“Been in your situation and managed to navigate it; seen others do the same.”source ↗

GWBrooks · r/nonprofit · 2 upvotes

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