Resident dog hates the new dog
Current dogs often react to a newcomer with growling, avoidance, or outright indifference rather than immediate acceptance. This unexpected hostility leaves owners stuck with pets that barely tolerate each other, preventing a peaceful multi-dog household.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
- 1Waiting longer for the resident dog to adjust to the loss
- 2Trying to meet calmer dogs or dogs of a different gender
- 3Adopting an adult dog instead of an older puppy to match energy levels
- 4Giving the dogs time to warm up to each other at their own pace
- 5Take home a blanket that smells like the pup to get him used to it's scent
- 6giving older dog lots of attention
- 7giving older dog his own safe space where the puppy can't bother him
- 8not forcing interactions
In their words
Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.
“With this puppy, he does not want him anywhere near his space. He’s not being aggressive by any means but gets annoyed when the puppy is even near him or following him, and avoiding him at all costs.”source ↗
“I want them to be best buds and I know it takes time, but I’m all in my head about what if he never warms up to him etc.”source ↗
“Today we met two dogs we were approved for and my current dog, who is generally very loving and submissive, was not a fan of the dogs we met.”source ↗
“Growling and avoiding. He’s never done that before. He’s usually very eager around dogs.”source ↗
“She was not having any of it at first, just sat there looking at us like we betrayed her.”source ↗
“Little Rocket does not care for new dog at all, just barely tolerates her, even after a year.”source ↗
“how would we go about introducing the wee fella into our household without causing jealousy or upset on Dougalls part and fear or anxiety on the pups part?”source ↗
Where this came up
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