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How to handle a young puppy alone during sudden schedule changes

Young puppies cannot attend daycare yet and often struggle to settle in new environments, leaving full-time workers with no safe options when unexpected events like jury duty disrupt daily routines. This mismatch between long work hours and a puppy's strict need for supervision makes owners worry they cannot properly raise a dog while working.

Overview
People affected36 accounts across 2 forums
Workarounds found88 items attempted
Community agreement130 total upvotes

What the numbers show

Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count

  • The most recent one is from October 2026.
  • This comes up 35.6× more often in r/puppy101 than across the site as a whole.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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  1. 1
    Leaving the puppy at parents' house in a crate for a couple of hours
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  2. 2
    Using a frozen kong to distract the puppy
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  3. 3
    Hiring a dog walker or pet sitter through services like Rover
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  4. 4
    Setting up a indoor playpen area
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  5. 5
    Using an automatic feeder
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  6. 6
    Installing Furbo and Ring cameras to watch and talk to the puppy
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  7. 7
    Laying out puppy pads or an indoor potty area
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  8. 8
    Using a Fresh Patch
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  9. 9
    Sending the puppy to daycare once a week
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  10. 10
    Taking 2 weeks off when the puppy first arrives
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    Hiring a dog walker or having someone stop by during the day
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    Coming home during the lunch break to let the puppy out and provide exercise and food.
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  13. 13
    Using a frozen kong and crate training to keep the puppy occupied while away.
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    Testing out short absences beforehand to help the puppy get used to being alone.
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    Having someone come by around noon to let the puppy out for an hour or two
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    Leaving the puppy in a playpen
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    Leaving the puppy in a crate
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    Attaching the crate to the playpen so the puppy can move between them freely
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    Using a crate for short periods
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    Leaving the puppy with a friend during longer shifts
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    Using a playpen configured with toys and mats
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    Fully puppy-proofing rooms
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    Leaving the puppy alone for short 30-minute intervals to run errands
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    Using a puppy camera to monitor the pet remotely while away
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    Bringing the dog along to dog-friendly places or drive-thru errands
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    Gradually building up the duration of time away during nap windows
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    leaving the dog in a crate for longer periods
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    using a dog walker
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    free-roaming
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    leaving the puppy crated at home
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    asking a friend to sit in the car or watch the dog
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    having one person stay outside with the dog while the other goes inside
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    Hiring a dog sitter to come midday for feeding, play, and toilet breaks
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    Using a crate for multi-hour intervals during work blocks
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    Confining the puppy in an exercise pen with a litter box
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    leaving for literally 10 seconds then coming back before any noise started, then 30 seconds, then a minute
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    work in very small increments, leaving for a minute or two and coming back before he starts worrying
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    Working remotely temporarily for the first two weeks
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    Going into the office for shorter 2-3 hour stretches
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    Dropping the puppy off at a mother-in-law's house
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    Having a friend call in midday
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    Hiring a dog walker once the puppy is bigger and allowed outside
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    Using pens and crates for puppy management
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    Leaving for very small increments of seconds through the front door
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    Putting the puppy in a crate for enforced naps and leaving while they are contained
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    Leaving quickly without making a fuss to run short errands
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    Putting the puppy in a designated room with a crate, blankets, toys, water, and food
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    Having a husband stop in during lunch breaks to let the puppy out
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    Walking the puppy in the mornings before work or after returning home
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    Considering hiring a dog walker or taking the dog to work or daycare if available
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    Using belly bands
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    Crate training
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    Hiring a dog walker or asking a friend/family member to check in during the day
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    Having a relative come by to play with the puppy halfway through the day
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    Using a crate or a playpen to restrict the puppy's movement when home alone
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    Having roommates feed the cat and scoop the litterbox
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    Trying to reassure oneself that everything will be fine
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    building up alone time gradually
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    consulting a pet trainer
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    using mental stimulation toys like puzzle games and snuffle mats
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    Waiting to pick up the puppy until after returning from the trip
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    Ignoring the crying puppies for the day
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    Limiting space to prevent failure in potty training
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    Hiring a dog trainer
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    Giving him a Kong or special treats when in his enclosed space
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    Leaving when he is drowsy
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    leaving the puppy inside either caged or in a large playpen
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    using a room with near nothing in it
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    building up trust and time gradually before allowing outdoor access
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    cleaning up indoor messes after returning home rather than leaving the dog outside
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    Leaving the puppy in a crate for several hours
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    Setting up an exercise pen attached to a crate with a fine mesh cover, pee pad, and safe toys
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    keeping the puppy in a small laundry room
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    using a bathroom with tile floors for easy accident cleanup
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    removing all cleaning supplies and detergents from the room
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    providing an old towel that the puppy can shred without guilt
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    crawling on hands and knees to find and remove potential chew hazards
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    Taking a sick day or using PTO to stay home
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    Having a family member come over midway through the day to play with them
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    Hiring a pet sitter from Rover or a midday dog walker
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    Enrolling the puppy in a local doggy daycare program
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    Setting up a puppy-proof space or playpen with food, water, and pee pads
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    Hiring a midday dog walker to break up the hours
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    Sending the puppy to a trusted pet sitter or daycare once a week
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    Working up to longer stretches of alone time gradually
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    Withholding water in the crate to prevent accidents while away
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    Attaching a playpen to the open crate to give the dog more roaming space
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    Doing intensive off-leash walks and training immediately before and after the workday
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/puppy10135 people · September 2026 – October 2026

“I recently got a golden retriever girl puppy (8w old) and I had originally planned to leave her in the garden when she's home alone, rather than inside, the thought being that it would be much more enjoyable for her.”source ↗

“in the 1h that she was the garden under supervision, I caught her eating mulch, which I did manage to get out of her mouth and cat poop which I did not manage to get out.”source ↗

X_AE_A-120 · r/puppy101 · 23 upvotes

“he gets very distressed being put in his crate/puppy proof room in the middle of the day and generally starts frantically barking.”source ↗

“other, shorter periods of time away have resulted in me coming home to a barking dog.”source ↗

“as soon as I go near the door he loses interest in the special treat/toy and focuses on the fact that I'm leaving.”source ↗

Delicious_Goat3665 · r/puppy101 · 15 upvotes

“I feel like I might be leaving my puppy alone too much?”source ↗

“I feel terrible now that she’s in her pen so much…”source ↗

Open-Package-9661 · r/puppy101 · 14 upvotes

“Where to keep him when I work?”source ↗

“I have a smallish laundry that has nothing in it, so I feel it would be safe for a puppy and he can at least move around.”source ↗

tess320 · r/puppy101 · 10 upvotes

“Growing up, my friend did this with her golden puppy and she died the first day by eating a bee.”source ↗

theBLEEDINGoctopus · r/puppy101 · 9 upvotes

“I took a 2 week vacation in preparation to bring him home and get him settled, but I go back to work on Monday.”source ↗

“the only thing I am worried about is the second half of my work day.”source ↗

Ok-Dealer-8558 · r/puppy101 · 6 upvotes

“I just feel like I can’t get a break.”source ↗

“I want to start going back to the gym in the evenings (I feel this will help me a lot with my dreaded puppy blues), but am afraid of ruining her potty training progress.”source ↗

“How did you guys start leaving your puppy alone for a couple hours?”source ↗

“Did you wait until a certain milestone was hit (no accidents in X weeks, sleeping X hours without waking up, etc) before deciding to leave them alone?”source ↗

Open-Package-9661 · r/puppy101 · 6 upvotes

“that's a lot of risk for a tiny puppy who's basically a vacuum with legs right now”source ↗

Accomplished-Cap1939 · r/puppy101 · 6 upvotes

“My predicament is that I have a wedding (outside the country) I need to attend in 2 weeks and so I won’t be in the country for like 10 days.”source ↗

“Is this something I should do? Would it impact the puppy negatively?”source ↗

XthieritoX · r/puppy101 · 4 upvotes

“The thought of leaving her alone breaks my heart.”source ↗

ToddH2O · r/puppy101 · 4 upvotes

“At pick-up, the puppy will be 8 weeks old. Normally, I am in the office two days a week, but my work has agreed to let me be fully remote for the first two weeks of bringing him home.”source ↗

“Will the puppy be fine in a crate for those 2-3 hours a day at 10 weeks old?”source ↗

“My husband’s schedule is far less flexible, so he can only really take over in the evening and on weekends.”source ↗

stas_r0m · r/puppy101 · 3 upvotes

“I have to go back to work in person this week and he'll have to be alone for 4 to 4.5 hours while I'm there.”source ↗

“I feel guilty leaving him in there for more than 2.5 to 3 hours which is why I thought the pen with pee pad might be better.”source ↗

“I've just read a lot that they shouldn't be in an ex-pen when you're out of the house. Any experience or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.”source ↗

Neat-Ad-3036 · r/puppy101 · 3 upvotes

“My 4.5 month old hasn't been left on her own yet. My partner works and im usually always at home and anywhere we've been, she's come with us, and as a result, in the nearly 9 weeks we've had her, shes not been left alone. Now my anxiety is a big barrier on taking the leap.”source ↗

“Honestly, I just worry about how to make that step happen of her being crated and me leaving and her waking up before im back.”source ↗

Ebzy_Doodle · r/puppy101 · 3 upvotes

“What happens when I need to go out for an appointment, etc. and he’s not ready for a nap? How do I prepare him to stay alone for a couple of hours when he’s wide awake?”source ↗

jotappenden · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

“I wanted to get a play pen to block off some of my room so he’s able to at least leave the crate and move. He does super good supervised and maybe when I go out to the kitchen for short periods but I’m worried if he has full room access while I’m at work he will get into something.”source ↗

Overall-Signature410 · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

“They will eat mulch till they burst, and they can get parasites from other animal poop.”source ↗

Cocacola_Desierto · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

“i’m just worried since she’s in a different place it’ll be hard for her to settle.”source ↗

tangiblecactus · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“School is about to start for me, and unfortunately, I can only have someone come by around noon to let her out for an hour or two.”source ↗

“Would she be okay being crated from 8:00–12:00, then having a break from 12:00–1:00/2:00, and being crated again from then until around 4:00?”source ↗

Positive_Steak4391 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“Looking for some advice. First time puppy owner. I have a 14 week old bernedoodle puppy who I will be leaving for 5ish hours tomorrow. Our longest stretch yet.”source ↗

“Basically I’m wondering if I should leave her in her pen tomorrow while we are gone for the extended stretch or in her crate.”source ↗

“What’s the best for her being comfortable and also hopefully being able to not have an accident.”source ↗

Dependent_Tap5805 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“Her walker is unavailable for the next two weeks.”source ↗

“Things are getting tricky at work and I really can't skip going into the office right now, but I feel absolutely awful even considering it.”source ↗

technicallydoingfine · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“I wouldn’t. even if the temps don’t get to a dangerous level, I wouldn’t want to risk someone breaking into my car to steal my dog.”source ↗

ushinawareta · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“I would never, ever do this. At one hour, the car would be 86°F. At two hours, the car would be 102°F. In 31 states, it’s illegal to leave your pet on the car for ANY amount of time.”source ↗

Rough-Jury · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“Because she hasn't had all her shots she can't yet go to doggie day care so we are trying to figure out what to do for the next four weeks.”source ↗

“We still have accidents about 1-2x/day.”source ↗

“I'm hesitant to put her in a bigger crate because I'm worried she will use half of it for the bathroom if she's in there for 2.5 hours.”source ↗

UrbanAlpinist718 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“When were you able to leave yours on their own without them whining, howling and barking?”source ↗

“leave the room for more than 5 minutes and he is not happy.”source ↗

UK1273chatter · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“I am just worried now about toilet training on office days. As he will be only 10 weeks when I have to go back and I fear that’s too long in a crate to my friend calls in.”source ↗

Sea_Beginning_4556 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“Need some advice on the best approach to take with training my 4.5 month old puppy to be ok while I’m gone.”source ↗

“However I obviously want him to be ok KNOWING I’m gone.”source ↗

“when I watched the camera he barked the whole time.”source ↗

“Im in an apt with neighbours so even 10 mins of high pitched barking is a lot.”source ↗

“My question is where should I go from here? Continue with the very small increments? It’s hard because that’ll take so long to build up to a timeframe I can achieve anything in.”source ↗

Bitter-Basil120 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“it seems that during the day if he’s left unsupervised like lets say if I go to my room for a minute while he’s playing with a toy or whatever, when I come back out he’s peed or pooped somewhere in the house.”source ↗

Adept_Marionberry_50 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“I’m not concerned that she can’t handle me being gone, but more-so concerned that she’s spending too much time in her pen and wondering if the amount of time she’s alone on a daily basis is normal or not”source ↗

Open-Package-9661 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“My puppy is 9 months old and I still don’t.”source ↗

justonlyme1244 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“I kept my last pup in the bathroom for a couple months, similar setup to your laundry room. tile floors so accidents were easy to clean and nothing dangerous within reach. worked out fine”source ↗

frizzy_illustrator · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“I don't want to leave my dog alone the whole day either and have been able to avoid it with rover sitters so far”source ↗

robotbeatrally · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“i am feeling a little guilty that he might have to be in the crate for longer as he’s getting older when i return to work.”source ↗

TwoBusiness9489 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“yea that was my concern too, i’m just afraid of not giving water for that long because my puppy once was very dehydrated and it scared us”source ↗

TwoBusiness9489 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

“Our issue is that my fiance may have jury duty this upcoming monday.”source ↗

“We don’t have much help and she’s too young for daycare.”source ↗

tangiblecactus · r/puppy101

“I work full time in an office.”source ↗

“Reddit community, with all this, do you still think it’s a terrible idea to leave him alone for 8 hours 2-3 times a week? Do people that work full time really can’t have a dog?”source ↗

Defiant_Breakfast974 · r/puppy101

“I work 12 hour shifts, usually 3 a week. My husband works 8 hours 5 days a week and I don’t know what the “correct” thing to do is.”source ↗

“I hate the idea of leaving him crated for 8 hours (even if it is only 3 days a week max).”source ↗

“He’s beginning to chew on the dry wall in the room. And tear apart fabrics. I’ll find pieces and crumbs allll over the room.”source ↗

“I just am constantly afraid I’m failing him. 😭”source ↗

Virtual_Stress1371 · r/puppy101

“I am having guilt leaving puppy at home while my fiance and I work.”source ↗

“He’s alone for 8-9 hours straight for 3 days of the week.”source ↗

“I feel like he gets so bitey and naughty and I’m worried it’s because he’s being left alone too long.”source ↗

xPizzaPrincess98 · r/puppy101

“Puppies need to be in the bathroom for a day, but one of them won't stop crying. Am I bad?”source ↗

“They usually cannot stay alone and they start crying, so I will ignore them for today.”source ↗

“as one of them scream (the needy one) the other one is chilled. I feel kinda bad dude.”source ↗

asdklnasdsad · r/puppy101

“It feels too soon to leave him alone in the crate, but I feel like maybe I’m overthinking this?”source ↗

audaciouscantaloupe · r/puppy101
r/cats1 person · September 2026

“In a couple of days, my partner and I are embarking on a 2 week vacation overseas. I'm very excited! But also drowning in anxiety about leaving my kitty for that long 😭”source ↗

“I keep having anxiety visions of coming home to a traumatized, starving cat who hasn't been properly cared for for 2 weeks.”source ↗

“I'm also afraid she'll be lonely and sad and will be mad at me when I come home.”source ↗

“Not sure how to put the fear to bed.”source ↗

trying_my_besttt · r/cats · 1 upvotes

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