How to handle a young puppy alone during sudden schedule changes
Young puppies cannot attend daycare yet and often struggle to settle in new environments, leaving full-time workers with no safe options when unexpected events like jury duty disrupt daily routines. This mismatch between long work hours and a puppy's strict need for supervision makes owners worry they cannot properly raise a dog while working.
What the numbers show
Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count
- The most recent one is from October 2026.
- This comes up 35.6× more often in r/puppy101 than across the site as a whole.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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- 1Leaving the puppy at parents' house in a crate for a couple of hoursDid this help you?
- 2Using a frozen kong to distract the puppyDid this help you?
- 3Hiring a dog walker or pet sitter through services like RoverDid this help you?
- 4Setting up a indoor playpen areaDid this help you?
- 5Using an automatic feederDid this help you?
- 6Installing Furbo and Ring cameras to watch and talk to the puppyDid this help you?
- 7Laying out puppy pads or an indoor potty areaDid this help you?
- 8Using a Fresh PatchDid this help you?
- 9Sending the puppy to daycare once a weekDid this help you?
- 10Taking 2 weeks off when the puppy first arrivesDid this help you?
- 11Hiring a dog walker or having someone stop by during the dayDid this help you?
- 12Coming home during the lunch break to let the puppy out and provide exercise and food.Did this help you?
- 13Using a frozen kong and crate training to keep the puppy occupied while away.Did this help you?
- 14Testing out short absences beforehand to help the puppy get used to being alone.Did this help you?
- 15Having someone come by around noon to let the puppy out for an hour or twoDid this help you?
- 16Leaving the puppy in a playpenDid this help you?
- 17Leaving the puppy in a crateDid this help you?
- 18Attaching the crate to the playpen so the puppy can move between them freelyDid this help you?
- 19Using a crate for short periodsDid this help you?
- 20Leaving the puppy with a friend during longer shiftsDid this help you?
- 21Using a playpen configured with toys and matsDid this help you?
- 22Fully puppy-proofing roomsDid this help you?
- 23Leaving the puppy alone for short 30-minute intervals to run errandsDid this help you?
- 24Using a puppy camera to monitor the pet remotely while awayDid this help you?
- 25Bringing the dog along to dog-friendly places or drive-thru errandsDid this help you?
- 26Gradually building up the duration of time away during nap windowsDid this help you?
- 27leaving the dog in a crate for longer periodsDid this help you?
- 28using a dog walkerDid this help you?
- 29free-roamingDid this help you?
- 30leaving the puppy crated at homeDid this help you?
- 31asking a friend to sit in the car or watch the dogDid this help you?
- 32having one person stay outside with the dog while the other goes insideDid this help you?
- 33Hiring a dog sitter to come midday for feeding, play, and toilet breaksDid this help you?
- 34Using a crate for multi-hour intervals during work blocksDid this help you?
- 35Confining the puppy in an exercise pen with a litter boxDid this help you?
- 36leaving for literally 10 seconds then coming back before any noise started, then 30 seconds, then a minuteDid this help you?
- 37work in very small increments, leaving for a minute or two and coming back before he starts worryingDid this help you?
- 38Working remotely temporarily for the first two weeksDid this help you?
- 39Going into the office for shorter 2-3 hour stretchesDid this help you?
- 40Dropping the puppy off at a mother-in-law's houseDid this help you?
- 41Having a friend call in middayDid this help you?
- 42Hiring a dog walker once the puppy is bigger and allowed outsideDid this help you?
- 43Using pens and crates for puppy managementDid this help you?
- 44Leaving for very small increments of seconds through the front doorDid this help you?
- 45Putting the puppy in a crate for enforced naps and leaving while they are containedDid this help you?
- 46Leaving quickly without making a fuss to run short errandsDid this help you?
- 47Putting the puppy in a designated room with a crate, blankets, toys, water, and foodDid this help you?
- 48Having a husband stop in during lunch breaks to let the puppy outDid this help you?
- 49Walking the puppy in the mornings before work or after returning homeDid this help you?
- 50Considering hiring a dog walker or taking the dog to work or daycare if availableDid this help you?
- 51Using belly bandsDid this help you?
- 52Crate trainingDid this help you?
- 53Hiring a dog walker or asking a friend/family member to check in during the dayDid this help you?
- 54Having a relative come by to play with the puppy halfway through the dayDid this help you?
- 55Using a crate or a playpen to restrict the puppy's movement when home aloneDid this help you?
- 56Having roommates feed the cat and scoop the litterboxDid this help you?
- 57Trying to reassure oneself that everything will be fineDid this help you?
- 58building up alone time graduallyDid this help you?
- 59consulting a pet trainerDid this help you?
- 60using mental stimulation toys like puzzle games and snuffle matsDid this help you?
- 61Waiting to pick up the puppy until after returning from the tripDid this help you?
- 62Ignoring the crying puppies for the dayDid this help you?
- 63Limiting space to prevent failure in potty trainingDid this help you?
- 64Hiring a dog trainerDid this help you?
- 65Giving him a Kong or special treats when in his enclosed spaceDid this help you?
- 66Leaving when he is drowsyDid this help you?
- 67leaving the puppy inside either caged or in a large playpenDid this help you?
- 68using a room with near nothing in itDid this help you?
- 69building up trust and time gradually before allowing outdoor accessDid this help you?
- 70cleaning up indoor messes after returning home rather than leaving the dog outsideDid this help you?
- 71Leaving the puppy in a crate for several hoursDid this help you?
- 72Setting up an exercise pen attached to a crate with a fine mesh cover, pee pad, and safe toysDid this help you?
- 73keeping the puppy in a small laundry roomDid this help you?
- 74using a bathroom with tile floors for easy accident cleanupDid this help you?
- 75removing all cleaning supplies and detergents from the roomDid this help you?
- 76providing an old towel that the puppy can shred without guiltDid this help you?
- 77crawling on hands and knees to find and remove potential chew hazardsDid this help you?
- 78Taking a sick day or using PTO to stay homeDid this help you?
- 79Having a family member come over midway through the day to play with themDid this help you?
- 80Hiring a pet sitter from Rover or a midday dog walkerDid this help you?
- 81Enrolling the puppy in a local doggy daycare programDid this help you?
- 82Setting up a puppy-proof space or playpen with food, water, and pee padsDid this help you?
- 83Hiring a midday dog walker to break up the hoursDid this help you?
- 84Sending the puppy to a trusted pet sitter or daycare once a weekDid this help you?
- 85Working up to longer stretches of alone time graduallyDid this help you?
- 86Withholding water in the crate to prevent accidents while awayDid this help you?
- 87Attaching a playpen to the open crate to give the dog more roaming spaceDid this help you?
- 88Doing intensive off-leash walks and training immediately before and after the workdayDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I recently got a golden retriever girl puppy (8w old) and I had originally planned to leave her in the garden when she's home alone, rather than inside, the thought being that it would be much more enjoyable for her.”source ↗
“in the 1h that she was the garden under supervision, I caught her eating mulch, which I did manage to get out of her mouth and cat poop which I did not manage to get out.”source ↗
“he gets very distressed being put in his crate/puppy proof room in the middle of the day and generally starts frantically barking.”source ↗
“other, shorter periods of time away have resulted in me coming home to a barking dog.”source ↗
“as soon as I go near the door he loses interest in the special treat/toy and focuses on the fact that I'm leaving.”source ↗
“I feel like I might be leaving my puppy alone too much?”source ↗
“I feel terrible now that she’s in her pen so much…”source ↗
“Where to keep him when I work?”source ↗
“I have a smallish laundry that has nothing in it, so I feel it would be safe for a puppy and he can at least move around.”source ↗
“Growing up, my friend did this with her golden puppy and she died the first day by eating a bee.”source ↗
“I took a 2 week vacation in preparation to bring him home and get him settled, but I go back to work on Monday.”source ↗
“the only thing I am worried about is the second half of my work day.”source ↗
“I just feel like I can’t get a break.”source ↗
“I want to start going back to the gym in the evenings (I feel this will help me a lot with my dreaded puppy blues), but am afraid of ruining her potty training progress.”source ↗
“How did you guys start leaving your puppy alone for a couple hours?”source ↗
“Did you wait until a certain milestone was hit (no accidents in X weeks, sleeping X hours without waking up, etc) before deciding to leave them alone?”source ↗
“that's a lot of risk for a tiny puppy who's basically a vacuum with legs right now”source ↗
“My predicament is that I have a wedding (outside the country) I need to attend in 2 weeks and so I won’t be in the country for like 10 days.”source ↗
“Is this something I should do? Would it impact the puppy negatively?”source ↗
“The thought of leaving her alone breaks my heart.”source ↗
“At pick-up, the puppy will be 8 weeks old. Normally, I am in the office two days a week, but my work has agreed to let me be fully remote for the first two weeks of bringing him home.”source ↗
“Will the puppy be fine in a crate for those 2-3 hours a day at 10 weeks old?”source ↗
“My husband’s schedule is far less flexible, so he can only really take over in the evening and on weekends.”source ↗
“I have to go back to work in person this week and he'll have to be alone for 4 to 4.5 hours while I'm there.”source ↗
“I feel guilty leaving him in there for more than 2.5 to 3 hours which is why I thought the pen with pee pad might be better.”source ↗
“I've just read a lot that they shouldn't be in an ex-pen when you're out of the house. Any experience or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.”source ↗
“My 4.5 month old hasn't been left on her own yet. My partner works and im usually always at home and anywhere we've been, she's come with us, and as a result, in the nearly 9 weeks we've had her, shes not been left alone. Now my anxiety is a big barrier on taking the leap.”source ↗
“Honestly, I just worry about how to make that step happen of her being crated and me leaving and her waking up before im back.”source ↗
“What happens when I need to go out for an appointment, etc. and he’s not ready for a nap? How do I prepare him to stay alone for a couple of hours when he’s wide awake?”source ↗
“I wanted to get a play pen to block off some of my room so he’s able to at least leave the crate and move. He does super good supervised and maybe when I go out to the kitchen for short periods but I’m worried if he has full room access while I’m at work he will get into something.”source ↗
“They will eat mulch till they burst, and they can get parasites from other animal poop.”source ↗
“i’m just worried since she’s in a different place it’ll be hard for her to settle.”source ↗
“School is about to start for me, and unfortunately, I can only have someone come by around noon to let her out for an hour or two.”source ↗
“Would she be okay being crated from 8:00–12:00, then having a break from 12:00–1:00/2:00, and being crated again from then until around 4:00?”source ↗
“Looking for some advice. First time puppy owner. I have a 14 week old bernedoodle puppy who I will be leaving for 5ish hours tomorrow. Our longest stretch yet.”source ↗
“Basically I’m wondering if I should leave her in her pen tomorrow while we are gone for the extended stretch or in her crate.”source ↗
“What’s the best for her being comfortable and also hopefully being able to not have an accident.”source ↗
“Her walker is unavailable for the next two weeks.”source ↗
“Things are getting tricky at work and I really can't skip going into the office right now, but I feel absolutely awful even considering it.”source ↗
“I wouldn’t. even if the temps don’t get to a dangerous level, I wouldn’t want to risk someone breaking into my car to steal my dog.”source ↗
“I would never, ever do this. At one hour, the car would be 86°F. At two hours, the car would be 102°F. In 31 states, it’s illegal to leave your pet on the car for ANY amount of time.”source ↗
“Because she hasn't had all her shots she can't yet go to doggie day care so we are trying to figure out what to do for the next four weeks.”source ↗
“We still have accidents about 1-2x/day.”source ↗
“I'm hesitant to put her in a bigger crate because I'm worried she will use half of it for the bathroom if she's in there for 2.5 hours.”source ↗
“When were you able to leave yours on their own without them whining, howling and barking?”source ↗
“leave the room for more than 5 minutes and he is not happy.”source ↗
“I am just worried now about toilet training on office days. As he will be only 10 weeks when I have to go back and I fear that’s too long in a crate to my friend calls in.”source ↗
“Need some advice on the best approach to take with training my 4.5 month old puppy to be ok while I’m gone.”source ↗
“However I obviously want him to be ok KNOWING I’m gone.”source ↗
“when I watched the camera he barked the whole time.”source ↗
“Im in an apt with neighbours so even 10 mins of high pitched barking is a lot.”source ↗
“My question is where should I go from here? Continue with the very small increments? It’s hard because that’ll take so long to build up to a timeframe I can achieve anything in.”source ↗
“it seems that during the day if he’s left unsupervised like lets say if I go to my room for a minute while he’s playing with a toy or whatever, when I come back out he’s peed or pooped somewhere in the house.”source ↗
“I’m not concerned that she can’t handle me being gone, but more-so concerned that she’s spending too much time in her pen and wondering if the amount of time she’s alone on a daily basis is normal or not”source ↗
“My puppy is 9 months old and I still don’t.”source ↗
“I kept my last pup in the bathroom for a couple months, similar setup to your laundry room. tile floors so accidents were easy to clean and nothing dangerous within reach. worked out fine”source ↗
“I don't want to leave my dog alone the whole day either and have been able to avoid it with rover sitters so far”source ↗
“i am feeling a little guilty that he might have to be in the crate for longer as he’s getting older when i return to work.”source ↗
“yea that was my concern too, i’m just afraid of not giving water for that long because my puppy once was very dehydrated and it scared us”source ↗
“Our issue is that my fiance may have jury duty this upcoming monday.”source ↗
“We don’t have much help and she’s too young for daycare.”source ↗
“I work full time in an office.”source ↗
“Reddit community, with all this, do you still think it’s a terrible idea to leave him alone for 8 hours 2-3 times a week? Do people that work full time really can’t have a dog?”source ↗
“I work 12 hour shifts, usually 3 a week. My husband works 8 hours 5 days a week and I don’t know what the “correct” thing to do is.”source ↗
“I hate the idea of leaving him crated for 8 hours (even if it is only 3 days a week max).”source ↗
“He’s beginning to chew on the dry wall in the room. And tear apart fabrics. I’ll find pieces and crumbs allll over the room.”source ↗
“I just am constantly afraid I’m failing him. 😭”source ↗
“I am having guilt leaving puppy at home while my fiance and I work.”source ↗
“He’s alone for 8-9 hours straight for 3 days of the week.”source ↗
“I feel like he gets so bitey and naughty and I’m worried it’s because he’s being left alone too long.”source ↗
“Puppies need to be in the bathroom for a day, but one of them won't stop crying. Am I bad?”source ↗
“They usually cannot stay alone and they start crying, so I will ignore them for today.”source ↗
“as one of them scream (the needy one) the other one is chilled. I feel kinda bad dude.”source ↗
“It feels too soon to leave him alone in the crate, but I feel like maybe I’m overthinking this?”source ↗
“In a couple of days, my partner and I are embarking on a 2 week vacation overseas. I'm very excited! But also drowning in anxiety about leaving my kitty for that long 😭”source ↗
“I keep having anxiety visions of coming home to a traumatized, starving cat who hasn't been properly cared for for 2 weeks.”source ↗
“I'm also afraid she'll be lonely and sad and will be mad at me when I come home.”source ↗
“Not sure how to put the fear to bed.”source ↗
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