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How to handle a young puppy alone during sudden schedule changes

Young puppies cannot attend daycare yet and often struggle to settle in new environments, leaving full-time workers with no safe options when unexpected events like jury duty disrupt daily routines. This mismatch between long work hours and a puppy's strict need for supervision makes owners worry they cannot properly raise a dog while working.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Leaving the puppy at parents' house in a crate for a couple of hours
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    Using a frozen kong to distract the puppy
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    Hiring a dog walker or pet sitter through services like Rover
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    Setting up a indoor playpen area
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    Using an automatic feeder
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    Installing Furbo and Ring cameras to watch and talk to the puppy
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    Laying out puppy pads or an indoor potty area
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    Using a Fresh Patch
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    Sending the puppy to daycare once a week
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    Taking 2 weeks off when the puppy first arrives
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    Hiring a dog walker or having someone stop by during the day
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    Coming home during the lunch break to let the puppy out and provide exercise and food.
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    Using a frozen kong and crate training to keep the puppy occupied while away.
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    Testing out short absences beforehand to help the puppy get used to being alone.
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    Having someone come by around noon to let the puppy out for an hour or two
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    Leaving the puppy in a playpen
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    Leaving the puppy in a crate
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    Attaching the crate to the playpen so the puppy can move between them freely
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    Using a crate for short periods
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    Leaving the puppy with a friend during longer shifts
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    Using a playpen configured with toys and mats
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    Fully puppy-proofing rooms
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    Leaving the puppy alone for short 30-minute intervals to run errands
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    Using a puppy camera to monitor the pet remotely while away
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    Bringing the dog along to dog-friendly places or drive-thru errands
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    Gradually building up the duration of time away during nap windows
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    leaving the dog in a crate for longer periods
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    using a dog walker
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    free-roaming
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    leaving the puppy crated at home
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    asking a friend to sit in the car or watch the dog
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    having one person stay outside with the dog while the other goes inside
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    Hiring a dog sitter to come midday for feeding, play, and toilet breaks
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    Using a crate for multi-hour intervals during work blocks
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    Confining the puppy in an exercise pen with a litter box

In their words

Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.

I took a 2 week vacation in preparation to bring him home and get him settled, but I go back to work on Monday.source ↗

the only thing I am worried about is the second half of my work day.source ↗

Ok-Dealer-8558 · r/puppy101 · 6 upvotes

I just feel like I can’t get a break.source ↗

I want to start going back to the gym in the evenings (I feel this will help me a lot with my dreaded puppy blues), but am afraid of ruining her potty training progress.source ↗

How did you guys start leaving your puppy alone for a couple hours?source ↗

Did you wait until a certain milestone was hit (no accidents in X weeks, sleeping X hours without waking up, etc) before deciding to leave them alone?source ↗

Open-Package-9661 · r/puppy101 · 6 upvotes

What happens when I need to go out for an appointment, etc. and he’s not ready for a nap? How do I prepare him to stay alone for a couple of hours when he’s wide awake?source ↗

jotappenden · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

I wanted to get a play pen to block off some of my room so he’s able to at least leave the crate and move. He does super good supervised and maybe when I go out to the kitchen for short periods but I’m worried if he has full room access while I’m at work he will get into something.source ↗

Overall-Signature410 · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

i’m just worried since she’s in a different place it’ll be hard for her to settle.source ↗

tangiblecactus · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

School is about to start for me, and unfortunately, I can only have someone come by around noon to let her out for an hour or two.source ↗

Would she be okay being crated from 8:00–12:00, then having a break from 12:00–1:00/2:00, and being crated again from then until around 4:00?source ↗

Positive_Steak4391 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

Looking for some advice. First time puppy owner. I have a 14 week old bernedoodle puppy who I will be leaving for 5ish hours tomorrow. Our longest stretch yet.source ↗

Basically I’m wondering if I should leave her in her pen tomorrow while we are gone for the extended stretch or in her crate.source ↗

What’s the best for her being comfortable and also hopefully being able to not have an accident.source ↗

Dependent_Tap5805 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

Her walker is unavailable for the next two weeks.source ↗

Things are getting tricky at work and I really can't skip going into the office right now, but I feel absolutely awful even considering it.source ↗

technicallydoingfine · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

I wouldn’t. even if the temps don’t get to a dangerous level, I wouldn’t want to risk someone breaking into my car to steal my dog.source ↗

ushinawareta · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

I would never, ever do this. At one hour, the car would be 86°F. At two hours, the car would be 102°F. In 31 states, it’s illegal to leave your pet on the car for ANY amount of time.source ↗

Rough-Jury · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

Because she hasn't had all her shots she can't yet go to doggie day care so we are trying to figure out what to do for the next four weeks.source ↗

We still have accidents about 1-2x/day.source ↗

I'm hesitant to put her in a bigger crate because I'm worried she will use half of it for the bathroom if she's in there for 2.5 hours.source ↗

UrbanAlpinist718 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

Our issue is that my fiance may have jury duty this upcoming monday.source ↗

We don’t have much help and she’s too young for daycare.source ↗

tangiblecactus · r/puppy101

I work full time in an office.source ↗

Reddit community, with all this, do you still think it’s a terrible idea to leave him alone for 8 hours 2-3 times a week? Do people that work full time really can’t have a dog?source ↗

Defiant_Breakfast974 · r/puppy101

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