Why does my dog police my bedtime?
Dogs develop strict internal clocks that expect their owners to follow rigid sleep and wake-up routines. When humans stay up late or delay morning wake-up times, pets respond with pacing, huffing, and vocalizations to force compliance with their schedule.
What the numbers show
Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count
- This comes up 48.3× more often in r/dogs than across the site as a whole.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
Found another way around this?
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- 1Going to bed when the dog demandsDid this help you?
- 2Ignoring the huffing, pacing, or vocalizationsDid this help you?
- 3Allowing the dog to wait on the stairs or sleep in a separate space until humans joinDid this help you?
- 4Being quicker about preparing dinner and hand-fed treatsDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I got home from work late, which means that his dinner was late. This is unacceptable to the fluffy burnt loaf of sourdough. I must be quicker about preparing his dinner and giving him his hand-fed treats.”source ↗
“With bedtime she comes into the room and stomps at me until I go to bed.”source ↗
“My dog will either start huffing/grumbling around bedtime which is usually 8:30-9pm depending on the day.”source ↗
“He some times comes back looks and uss pissed makes a huff Sound and leaves again”source ↗
“If we stay up later than he prefers, we get notified by some pacing and huffing.”source ↗
“Mine expects me to be upstairs at a certain time, and she will make low-key vocalizations until she gets what she wants.”source ↗
“my dog will stare at me until i go get in bed. and not waking up when he wants to is out of the question”source ↗
Where this came up
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