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How to handle $73k in student and credit card debt at 21

Carrying a massive student loan and consumer debt burden while completely self-supporting at age 21 creates overwhelming anxiety and constant worry about money. Furthermore, unpaid balances can lead to withheld transcripts needed for further education, trapping people who are trying to advance their careers.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    living in a shared apartment renting a room as cheaply as possible
  2. 2
    making a strict budget of incomings and outgoings and reducing expenses
  3. 3
    tackling the highest interest debt (credit cards) first
  4. 4
    utilizing income-based repayment options for student loans
  5. 5
    Calling the university's bursar's office to see if payment can be made directly to them
  6. 6
    Requesting debt validation from the collection agency before paying
  7. 7
    Negotiating a lower settlement amount with the collection agency

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/personalfinance2 people · September 2026

i’m 21 years old, and for some context, i completely support myself financially and don’t have any financial help from my parent.source ↗

so that’s about $73k total debt at 21.source ↗

i’m scared that i’m going to spend my entire life worrying about money. i already have to support myself, and the thought of starting my post-grad life with $73k of debt honestly makes me really sad.source ↗

right now, my biggest source of anxiety is the debt.source ↗

DurianMindless3682 · r/personalfinance · 161 upvotes

Now I need my transcript to send to another school since I’m going back for another degree and can’t get my transcript because of the unpaid balance?source ↗

I’m extremely frustrated because I wasn’t even contacted by the agency nor have I received any letters.source ↗

Unfair-Historian-979 · r/personalfinance

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