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How to stop a puppy from biting when playing

Puppies get too excited during physical games like tug or fetch and end up biting hard, leaving their owners covered in marks on their arms and legs. This constant hard biting leaves people desperate for help and unsure of what to do to control the aggressive play.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    redirecting to toys
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    bribing with treats
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    using different chew toys
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    making a loud ouch sound
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    ignoring the puppy and walking away
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    enforcing structured nap schedules
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    using time outs
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    stopping the game immediately and removing oneself when the puppy bites
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    using a very long rope toy to keep the puppy further away from the body
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    alternating between short bursts of play and sniffing or calm activities
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    taking a 15-minute time-out for both owner and puppy
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    Waiting for time to pass and the puppy to mature
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    Increasing nap time and implementing strict enforced nap schedules
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    Stepping out of the play area and turning your back to stop all play when biting happens
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    Setting up a specific play area to easily leave the enclosure
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    putting up gates
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    providing toys and bones
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    placing the dog in a crate
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    Doing a reverse timeout
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    Telling the puppy no
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    Wearing ankle height rain boots to prevent latching
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    Wearing house slippers
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    soaking up wins when they happen
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    working and struggling through regressions
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    Using lick mats or kongs
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    Feeding dinner on a foraging mat
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    Giving a teething ring treat
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    Tiring the puppy out in the backyard before a nap
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    Wearing slide sandals that the puppy ignores
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    Breaking out rubber clogs
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    Picking up and holding the puppy until it calms down
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    Walking away and ignoring the puppy until it stops
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    Replacing play with focused training sessions
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    Holding and sitting with the puppy in a quiet park
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    Picking the puppy up and returning home
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    Cutting down walk durations and bringing treats to coax them
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    Using basic obedience commands like heel, sit, or down to snap them out of it
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    checking wiki articles on biting, teeth, and chewing
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    Being stern
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    Redirecting
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    Ignoring
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    Walking away
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    Time outs for humans and the puppy
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    Yelping loudly
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    Enforced naps
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    Providing mental and physical exercise
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    Giving a frozen wet washcloth
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    Turning away from the dog during the shark stage
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    Putting the dog in a timeout or forced nap in a crate or pen
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    Powering through the biting to get the harness on quickly
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    Training the puppy to sit before starting and pausing every time they move in to bite
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    Switching to a different style of harness, such as an over-the-head or saddle-style harness, that requires fewer steps
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    Putting the harness on multiple times a day when not going out to make the process more boring
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    Letting the puppy chew on bones, other toys, and a snuffle mat instead of interactive play
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    Taking the puppy outside more frequently on leash
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    Keeping the puppy busy letting them chew on stuff or explore
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    Buying teething toys
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    Keeping the puppy on a lead and holding it away during biting, then rewarding only after the puppy settles
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    Staying out of the dog's way to avoid getting bit
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    Paying for professional training
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    Giving frozen chews or toys designed to be cooled in the freezer
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    Freezing a carrot
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    Freezing a Kong filled with yogurt and peanut butter
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    Taking months off work to stay home and train
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    Attending multiple group training classes with different trainers
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    Scheduling behaviorist sessions
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    Individual grooming confidence sessions
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    Administering anxiety medication prescribed by a vet
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    Using positive reinforcement and management techniques
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    Ignoring her
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    Using trick training and slow feeder bowls
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    Yelping or saying no while pulling hands away
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    Redirecting with toys or known commands
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    Placing the puppy in a kennel to calm down
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    Enforcing strict nap schedules and enrichment activities
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    making a sound of being in pain and going limp or facing away
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    using the back of hand to push the dog's forehead away and saying no
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    trying to get the dog to play with toys like a flirt pole
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    leaving the room and hoping the dog naps it off

In their words

Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.

After 2 weeks of really working and struggling with our 16 week old rescue lab mix - today was a really good day!!source ↗

leopard-licker · r/puppy101 · 26 upvotes

I’m desperate for help. Me and my girlfriend just got a stray 6 month puppy. Shes super sweet and loves to play and be a dog but her biting is getting out of control.source ↗

I’ve got marks all on my arms and legs and I’m not sure what to do.source ↗

sparky0619 · r/puppy101 · 10 upvotes

my 11 week old golden retriever is literally biting EVERYTHING 😭 hands, clothes, legs, basically anything he can get to.source ↗

when we try to stop him or put him down he gets even more worked up and starts barking until we basically give in.source ↗

we’ve tried redirecting him with toys and treats but sometimes he just does not care lol.source ↗

GrandWorry398 · r/puppy101 · 9 upvotes

Also, I’m lost on how to play with him because he gets so worked up so fast that pretty much anything (fetching, tugging) brings on an overstimulated attack.source ↗

Affectionate_Okra702 · r/puppy101 · 7 upvotes

Twice now, she’s laid down and refused to move, including in the middle of the street, then started aggressively biting us.source ↗

Today was bad, when she was laying down she turned into a different dog and bit my arm so hard and ripped a hole in my shirt.source ↗

rp1load · r/puppy101 · 5 upvotes

So im now at 3 dog bites.source ↗

He will also randomly turn aggressive on me and i stay out of his way to avoid getting bit.source ↗

I just dont want it to continue to escalate and my child or someone else gets hurt.source ↗

im terrified when people come over that hes gonna react even though most of the time hes okay.source ↗

ConsiderationReal787 · r/dogs · 4 upvotes

The main time of day I’m struggling with is the hour before she goes to bed she has a nap from 6-8, final dinner is just after she’s peed and then all hell breaks loose.source ↗

She’s biting and jumping, the only time she will growl while playing is during this hour.source ↗

I want to have it be a wind down time so she’s calmer before bed but I’m not sure what to do.source ↗

internetsluth007 · r/puppy101 · 3 upvotes

I’m getting to the point where I’m not enjoying the puppy stage anymore.source ↗

I can’t take him for walks because he is just all over me.source ↗

GeorgiaGallivanting · r/puppy101 · 3 upvotes

no matter what i do, she wont stop biting/lunging at me.source ↗

my arms are littered in cuts because of her and shes drawn blood on more than one occasion.source ↗

gloomyroomyboomy · r/puppy101 · 3 upvotes

Now he is an 11wk old piranha who tries to nip and bite us whenever we try to pet him and demand barks whenever we aren't paying attention to him.source ↗

When he continues to bite, I end up picking him up or bringing him to my side in a snug hold to get him to settle. This doesn't super work as he ends up alligator rolling out and sprinting away, just to come back and nip again.source ↗

Lost_Party3121 · r/puppy101 · 3 upvotes

whenever we play literally any physical game (tug, fetch, kicking a ball, dragging a stuffy) he gets so excited he bites me hard.source ↗

My current 15 week male gsd pup is suuuper bitey.source ↗

Particular-Cow-7577 · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

he has chewed up and literally lifted up the carpet (actual carpet on the floor not a rug etc) on the floor to where the foam stuff is exposedsource ↗

all he wants to do is jump and pull on our clothes literally ripping our clothes and biting us HARDsource ↗

If we ever try to put him in his crate to leave to go somewhere or he is placed in there after hurting someone he will bark loudly for a long time as well and not get tired.source ↗

Hot_Examination_8783 · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

he bites at our feet (especially mine) & idk how to get him to stop.source ↗

his teeth are razor sharp & just him nipping at my feet leaves marks.source ↗

xomelissae · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

Looking for some recommendations for women's footwear that I can put on quickly to take puppy out and that isn't too interesting to the teething chaos goblin.source ↗

he simply must investigate with his mouth if it has: laces, a shoe tongue, tabs (RIP Blundstones), or an edge higher than my ankle (RIP rain boots).source ↗

apricuts · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

My pup isn’t too bad of a biter anymore, still working through it, but it’s awful when trying to get her harness on. It takes about 30 seconds because she bites my hands the entire time and I just power through itsource ↗

albertbdente · r/puppy101 · 2 upvotes

In the same place with my staffy puppy at 12 ish weeks. A few things that kind of work (he still bites nearly every time but this has semi improved things)source ↗

Original-Singer1046 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

even with that, he tore one side nearly apart.source ↗

xomelissae · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

my rescue mix was a total land shark at that age, I remember the first time he just plopped down and chewed a toy by himself I almost cried.source ↗

EmergencyDapper7866 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

Having a puppy definitely has helped ease our sadness, but boy, I had forgotten just how tough a new puppy is!source ↗

It's such a huge change from a mellow adult dog to the puppy chaos. Our new little guy is adorable and we fell for him quickly, but it sure is exhausting!source ↗

Creative-Savings-792 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

My shoes are always put away, this is when they're on my feet and I'm walkingsource ↗

apricuts · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

14 1/2 week old puppy losing teeth and I’m scared lolsource ↗

I was a little impatient because he was biting me a lot more but when he was playing with his chew toy, I realized a couple of his teeth were missing and a few were growing into his gum line so understood how uncomfortable he was.source ↗

Is losing teeth normal at this age? Seems a bit early from what I’ve read but I am also desperate to know what will help him relieve the pain.source ↗

Unique_Egg2853 · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

Whenever I play with my dog, she’ll eventually start nipping me.source ↗

I tried ignoring her, but sometimes she nips me to get my attention.source ↗

Also sometimes when I’m eating she’ll nip me bc I’m not giving her any food.source ↗

hshhahbsbs · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

I've tried the approaches that seem geared toward puppies (making a sound of being in pain then going limp in the corner, facing away; or using the back of my hand to push his forehead away and say no -- both of which seem to make him more excited) with minimal results and have therefor concluded that it's just his inner velociraptor coming out to play.source ↗

Whenever he gets like this do I just leave him? Do I try to get him to play with a toy instead (flirt pole seems to distract him, but not perfectly)? Do I leave the room and hope he naps it off?source ↗

okokyaalright · r/puppy101 · 1 upvotes

But my wife and daughter are getting full on sharked constantly throughout the day.source ↗

Biting quite hard and not letting go, biting clothing etc. plenty of blood has been drawn and I’m pretty sure some are going to scar.source ↗

It’s ruining any enjoyment we thought we’d get from our new puppy, and we are constantly walking on eggshells around her.source ↗

We’ve tried redirecting, ignoring, walking away, time outs for us and her, yelping loudly, all of it.source ↗

ArticulatedFencepost · r/puppy101

Nothing seems to hold her attention for very long, even most times I give her a chew stick or similar that she used to spend so much time with.source ↗

I’m not even sure we’re in full teething territory yet and we’re not getting much rest, training or meals eaten lately.source ↗

getdeadredhead · r/puppy101

he won’t stop biting. He’s been biting me to the point where I bleed I’ve bought him a bunch of teething toys but nothing will stop.source ↗

WhereasAdmirable2727 · r/puppy101

It turned out he was aggressive and reactive, and scared of everything.source ↗

I have finally considered rehoming him but who the heck would even take him is my first thought.source ↗

Honestly I don't know what to do anymore. What do I do??🙈🙉🙈 Has anyone been through this? is this puppy life because it SUCKSsource ↗

MiserableBuffalo7030 · r/puppy101

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