What should I ask for when a neighbor wants property access?
When a neighbor or developer needs access for construction along a shared boundary, people often struggle to determine what demands or compensation are reasonable. Without clear terms, property owners risk missing out on compensation for temporary use, lacking protection against excavation damage, or failing to secure proper insurance and full property restoration.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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What should I ask for when a neighbor wants property access?
- 1Accepting the new fence as offeredDid this help you?
- 2Denying permission and allowing them to build a separate fence nearbyDid this help you?
- 3Asking for reasonable additions like a retaining wall or privacy treesDid this help you?
- 4Documenting baseline property and drainage conditions with photosDid this help you?
- 5Refusing access entirely by saying noDid this help you?
- 6Hiring a real estate or property attorney to draft and review access agreementsDid this help you?
- 7Demanding restoration funds be placed in escrow before work beginsDid this help you?
- 8Requiring independent engineering studies and professional property surveysDid this help you?
- 9Getting a personal land survey done to independently verify the linesDid this help you?
- 10Hiring an expensive lawyer to argue adverse possession or boundary by acquiescenceDid this help you?
- 11Offering to buy the disputed strip of land from the neighborDid this help you?
- 12Conceding the space and letting the neighbor pay to move the fenceDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“My neighbor is doing a major construction project and needs access to my property to build a retaining wall along our shared property line.”source ↗
“For anyone who's dealt with something similar: Did you receive compensation for temporary use of your property in addition to having everything restored? How was the amount determined?”source ↗
“Also, what protections did you include for excavation/foundation damage, insurance, construction overruns, and restoration?”source ↗
“I'm willing to cooperate; I just want to make sure I'm adequately protected before agreeing.”source ↗
“Should I ask for more? A retaining wall with trees for privacy? A tank of gas for my car? What is the general consensus on reasonability vs getting something out of this besides a new fence?”source ↗
“I bought my home last year and there was an absolute mess of a fence at the time. My daughter has big dogs and I knew going in that I’d need to replace the fence. I hired a company, and once they began working on the project, the neighbor behind me came out and harassed them! He demanded that I put the fence back, he called the county and complained, then he called the fucking police.”source ↗
“The western neighbor got a new survey done recently and it turns out that fence that has been dividing the two properties for over 20 years is roughly 3 feet into their property and they'd like to move it to reflect the actual property line. I'd be losing 3ft of the yard I considered mine and so have previous owners”source ↗
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