Said It Here

Why do employers ghost you after a job interview?

Employers often stop communicating entirely after multiple interview rounds, leaving candidates with weeks or months of complete silence. This lack of follow-up leaves job seekers stranded without knowing if they are moving forward, making the exhausting application process even more discouraging.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Expecting companies to be completely unprofessional
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    Assuming lack of communication means not moving forward
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    continuing to recruit
  4. 4
    taking a break from job hunting
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    reaching out to recruiters or hiring managers directly for updates
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    asking gracefully for feedback
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    refusing to do free work or case studies as part of the interview process
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    posting interview questions online to get feedback from peers
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    reassuring oneself that going over time in the interview is a positive sign
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    relying on the experience gained to add to your resume
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    applying for another internship before graduating
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    applying to a high volume of full-time job openings
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    Told not to overthink it, move on to the next interview, and accept that hiring involves factors outside of individual performance.
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    seeking resume tweaks and suggestions for entry-level jobs to gain experience
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    Asking recruiters for feedback
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    Analyzing LinkedIn to see who ultimately gets hired
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    Assessing interview verbosity and trying to be more concise
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    Developing 30/90/365 day execution plans for target roles
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    Taking breaks from the job search to avoid burnout
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    relying on recruiters that reach out first on LinkedIn
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    updating LinkedIn profiles with experience and systems used and marking yourself as looking for work
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    fixing resumes or improving job search skills
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    waiting it out for a week before following up
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    following up immediately to reduce anxiety and catch forgotten emails

In their words

Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.

I cant imagine how many jobs I applied to only to receive radio silence.source ↗

valkyriemk · r/humanresources · 202 upvotes

I’ve just come out of nearly half a year of interviews with the Gates Foundation …multiple rounds, across time zones, with promises that “I’d hear back by Friday.”source ↗

Last_Dust1974 · r/nonprofit · 170 upvotes

It was a 4 month interview process that included me flying to their headquarters for a superday. I also did a large case study for them. They didn’t have the decency to give me feedback on their decision (or even tell me about being rejected!)source ↗

SwimminglyAcceptable · r/nonprofit · 61 upvotes

I keep making it to the final round for senior IT leadership roles, but I’m not getting the offer. What am I doing wrong?source ↗

The frustrating part is that I keep getting really far and then not getting the offer.source ↗

zeke423 · r/ITManagers · 57 upvotes

the jumping through hoops to find the time to speak with their hiring team, colleagues and whomever else they threw at me…was all very exhausting.source ↗

Last_Dust1974 · r/nonprofit · 22 upvotes

I am just wondering what I did so wrong by asking these questions?source ↗

Majestic-Home2021 · r/sysadmin · 15 upvotes

Seriously ! I’ve had multiple rounds of interviews and never heard back from employerssource ↗

smorio_sem · r/humanresources · 13 upvotes

I had an internship this summer at a mid-sized firm and received great feedback on my work and quality of work I brought, but said I was communicating too much but also said to keep asking questions?source ↗

I feel like whatever feedback my managers said to me feel not convincing and I just feel like I didn't do enough to get it.source ↗

I feel like whatever I do, its not enough to get me past my competition.source ↗

I need some advice on how I can move forward in a better way and whether that result hurts my overall standing on whether I can become a competent accountant.source ↗

SosukeAyizen · r/Accounting · 10 upvotes

ive applied to s lot of internships and jobs with this resume, are there any tweaks or things I should add that could help me land something that could get my foot in the door?source ↗

RecognitionDapper270 · r/Accounting · 5 upvotes

I’ve been job searching like crazy lately and getting a lot of 2nd, 3rd, 4th interviews, only to be met with….nothing. Complete 👻. Weeks, months go by where I’m pretty sure their disappearance means I’m not moving forwardsource ↗

Legitimate-Sun-4581 · r/humanresources · 5 upvotes

My Q is how do you not get attached with these companies with 6 rounds of interviews, a case study and case study presentation to a panel???source ↗

Im itching to hear back. I just want to know how they feel.source ↗

SuccessfulWinter2826 · r/Accounting · 4 upvotes

I feel like it went well, But I have this nagging feeling that my questions were not as strong as I thought they weresource ↗

crustypug · r/Accounting · 3 upvotes

I was aggressively looking for a new senior accountant role earlier this year and probably did about 100 applications with no responses.source ↗

Btug857 · r/Accounting · 2 upvotes

I think I am nervous about the transition, but simultaneously, super eager to get out and use my degree with this firm so I am over here sweating all weekend lol.source ↗

crustypug · r/Accounting · 1 upvotes

mine is similar in format and structure and im not getting any leadssource ↗

Successful_Safe_1440 · r/Accounting · 1 upvotes

Been applying for jobs with 4+ years of experience for Senior roles as a Senior Analyst and I've applied to 30 places and have had 1 interview.source ↗

ConsiderationDull235 · r/Accounting · 1 upvotes

For the past 3yrs or so, I've made it thru to final interviews with CEO's, Presidents, etc. Only to be told they went with someone else.source ↗

xxxTech007 · r/ITManagers · 1 upvotes

I want to ask should I follow up with the Hr tomorrow (3rd day after interview) or I just keep on waiting?source ↗

Nauman1010 · r/salesforce · 1 upvotes

Also unemployment makes you more depressed 😔source ↗

Nauman1010 · r/salesforce · 1 upvotes

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