Is October 10th too early for a Halloween birthday party?
An October 10th party date sits in a gray area where it feels too distant from Halloween for a themed celebration. This leaves hosts stuck on whether to embrace the holiday early or settle for a generic theme, and unsure of when to send out invitations and lock down a headcount.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
- 1Asking online forums for validation
- 2Checking whether the child is old enough to choose
- 3Clarifying on invitations that costumes are not required
- 4Sending out invitations early and asking guests to RSVP well in advance.
- 5Asking the entertainment company about their policy on adjusting the final headcount closer to the date.
- 6Giving presents on the party day or weekend instead
- 7Making the actual birthday special through breakfast treats and decorations while keeping gifts for the evening after school
- 8Reserving one main present for the school morning and the rest for the weekend
- 9Paying extra money for weekend party slots
- 10Limiting attendance only to the closest friends or whoever can make it
- 11Reserving weeknight parties exclusively for Fridays or during summer break
- 12Scheduling parties during the afternoon (12-2 pm) to accommodate churchgoers and lunch times
In their words
Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.
“Is October tenth too far away from Halloween to make it Halloween themed ?”source ↗
“Please help an indecisive mom”source ↗
“Is it reasonable to do the party on a weeknight from 5 PM to 7:30 PM or do you think most parents will decline the invitation?”source ↗
“I’m unsure of how to go about it.”source ↗
“Do I send out invitations now and ask people to RSVP by like the end of September/ beginning of October so I can have a head count. Then plan the party after that, or is it too soon to send out invitations?”source ↗
“getting home and getting her ready for bed would make it hard for her to not be cranky the next morning when I wake her up for school.”source ↗
“We don’t get off work until 5 and would still need to pick up our other kids.”source ↗
“When mine was in k - 3rd, she was out at 7.30. It wasn't even a bedtime so much as that was just as late as she could stand it.”source ↗
“Thoughts on a Sunday birthday party for preschoolers?”source ↗
“I know a Saturday is *more* ideal but it’s significantly cheaper on Sunday (for good reason I’m sure).”source ↗
“I know birthday party attendance for 4 year olds is low anyways, but is that day/time setting us up for failure?”source ↗
Where this came up
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