Said It Here

How do you plan a first-time long distance move?

First-time long distance movers often don't know where to start, especially when trying to downsize a house full of belongings while managing distant or unattended logistics. Without a clear step-by-step framework, it becomes overwhelming to coordinate packing and reliable transport for valuable items when you cannot be there in person.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Leaving some belongings in the house and selling it for a lower price

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/moving2 people · September 2026

“we never moved before and don’t know what to do.”source ↗

“there’s so much stuff in this huge house, I don’t think we can get rid of them all”source ↗

“Considering all of this, what are the steps we should take?”source ↗

AlteredG919 · r/moving · 2 upvotes

“I have an 800sqft apt, a king bed, two dressers, a desk, a tv and a hefty fire place stand under it, a sofa, and a solid amount of loose, fragile items that need to be packed.”source ↗

“I am not there and need someone to pack, drive to Boulder, and put in a storage unit.”source ↗

“I have a lot of valuable items and since I wont be there, I'm very worried about independant contractors”source ↗

totallyNotAtroll3 · r/moving · 1 upvotes

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