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How do you fix a backyard patio with mismatched paver sizes?

Modern replacement pavers are often slightly larger than older ones, making them impossible to slide into tight gaps without cutting. Beginners also face backbreaking physical strain trying to hand-tamp and level the ground, leading to uneven surfaces that are demoralizing to fix.

Overview
People affected18 accounts across 3 forums
Workarounds found41 items attempted
Community agreement106 total upvotes

What the numbers show

Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count

  • The most recent one is from October 2026.
  • This comes up 36.6× more often in r/Landscaping than across the site as a whole.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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Share your steps and trade-offs so fellow engineers don't have to reinvent the wheel. No account required.

  1. 1
    removing deteriorating pavers to extend garden beds instead of replacing them
    Did this help you?
  2. 2
    watching more tutorial videos to learn proper DIY techniques
    Did this help you?
  3. 3
    hiring professionals to replace the entire patio floor
    Did this help you?
  4. 4
    DIY the repair or replacement to save money
    Did this help you?
  5. 5
    Build a floating deck using deck foundation blocks instead of posts
    Did this help you?
  6. 6
    Make the deck smaller or replace only the decking boards if framing allows
    Did this help you?
  7. 7
    Check underneath to inspect for broken or damaged joists
    Did this help you?
  8. 8
    letting the grass grow up to the brick
    Did this help you?
  9. 9
    Dig out the loose material using a flathead screwdriver and shop vac, then sweep in polymeric sand and mist it with water.
    Did this help you?
  10. 10
    Remove all the current grout using specialized tools and redo the entire area with new material.
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  11. 11
    Digging up the pavers manually
    Did this help you?
  12. 12
    Trying to clean mortar off the individual pavers
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  13. 13
    Considering replacing the patio with poured concrete instead of pavers
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  14. 14
    Pressure washing the pavers
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  15. 15
    Checking if the stones are cracked or kiln-dried
    Did this help you?
  16. 16
    Relaying stones upside down to mask chipped edges
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  17. 17
    Adding tamped sand and new grouts for a temporary fix
    Did this help you?
  18. 18
    scraping out old joint sand and refilling with fresh polymeric sand
    Did this help you?
  19. 19
    redoing the base layers and relaying the pavers
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  20. 20
    letting moss fill the gaps naturally
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  21. 21
    power washing and scraping out cracks before refilling them
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  22. 22
    Pulling out the rock and replacing it with astroturf
    Did this help you?
  23. 23
    Lying down sod with turf
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  24. 24
    Concreting the whole area
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  25. 25
    Avoiding the patio area entirely
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  26. 26
    scrape, etch, and repaint the concrete
    Did this help you?
  27. 27
    rip all of it up and replace it with real pavers
    Did this help you?
  28. 28
    re-stain the stamped concrete
    Did this help you?
  29. 29
    Requesting receipts and confronting the original landscaper
    Did this help you?
  30. 30
    Switching entirely to real stone instead of pavers for future projects
    Did this help you?
  31. 31
    Applying moss killer and pressure washing
    Did this help you?
  32. 32
    Physically pulling moss, grass, and weeds
    Did this help you?
  33. 33
    Choosing between traditional sand with a sealer versus polymeric sand
    Did this help you?
  34. 34
    Hiring professional contractors for larger parts of the project
    Did this help you?
  35. 35
    buying gravel and compacting it into the hole
    Did this help you?
  36. 36
    contacting the local government road maintenance department to request repairs or check policies
    Did this help you?
  37. 37
    building a small wall, curb, or installing rock for containment
    Did this help you?
  38. 38
    Putting down pavers or a stepping stone footpath
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  39. 39
    Concreting the path with a less severe slope
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  40. 40
    Installing gutters or interlocking gravel beds to handle water erosion
    Did this help you?
  41. 41
    Building a short wooden deck over the gap
    Did this help you?
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/Landscaping14 people · September 2026 – October 2026

“The brick pavers were overgrown with grass, weeds and moss.”source ↗

“After removing all the moss, I had to decide whether to use sand and a sealer, or to use polymeric sand.”source ↗

Comfortable-Dish1236 · r/Landscaping · 49 upvotes

“Now I’m wondering what are my options as the pavers have settled a bit more and the sand between has gaps.”source ↗

Cool_Researcher8597 · r/Landscaping · 24 upvotes

“We bought a house from an elderly gentleman and this patio not only smells like New York on the first hot spring day - where the snow melts and urine saturates the air - but it’s also just so unusable with this rock.”source ↗

Immediate_Fly_7298 · r/Landscaping · 7 upvotes

“It feels daunting! Any advice on tackling this would be extremely appreciated.”source ↗

jgod213 · r/Landscaping · 6 upvotes

“as first timers it’s very difficult to tamp/ level and the original pavers being 7.5 inches wide vs the 8 inch pavers we can find easily at local hardware stores, it is difficult to slide the replacements in.”source ↗

“honestly was kind of demoralizing how difficult and backbreaking it was. I think we laid like 6 pavers but were sad about how unlevel they were.”source ↗

berribell · r/Landscaping · 3 upvotes

“Want to do at least something before the winter. I know the right answer is to probably tear it up and tighten up the gaps.”source ↗

Fury413rb · r/Landscaping · 3 upvotes

“I'm 62 and was tackling stuff like this a few years ago no problem but I'm slipping physically all of a sudden.”source ↗

goodSunn · r/Landscaping · 2 upvotes

“Got the exact same issue smh”source ↗

AndySexington · r/Landscaping · 1 upvotes

“That rock is a nightmare with dogs and a baby, you’d be better off pulling it all out”source ↗

No_Row7079 · r/Landscaping · 1 upvotes

“I agree. It’s a nightmare area for me. I love spending time outdoors and I legit avoid this whole area.”source ↗

Immediate_Fly_7298 · r/Landscaping · 1 upvotes

“the edge of the yard where it meets the street seems to have become pretty sunken in and sandy over time. I'm wondering how I should go about remedying this area.”source ↗

Adam_Bombb · r/Landscaping · 1 upvotes

“Keep in mind mate nothing will ever grow there except maybe weeds.... and not well. Assuming youre in snowing climate the salt runoff will keep it dead. You'd need a curb or just rock but itll als always look bad without containment.”source ↗

Necessary-Mall-3365 · r/Landscaping · 1 upvotes

“Old deck was built into the dirt and has rotted out.”source ↗

Glad_Technician3193 · r/Landscaping

“Had my backyard done in June and the pavers look terrible three months later.”source ↗

“You can see the areas that were shaded by a grill and deck box as compared to the others.”source ↗

“Additionally, they dry unevenly, with some areas of sand holding moisture hours after getting wet.”source ↗

djbg2002 · r/Landscaping

“I have this small path leading into my garden and over the years it’s taken quite a beaten and subsiding.”source ↗

“For going into next year, what could I do to fix this path and make it smooth?”source ↗

onlyjames · r/Landscaping
r/HomeMaintenance3 people · September 2026

“The condition of the pavers had deteriorated over the past 3 years, and parts had sunken in. It didn't drain correctly, tripping hazards all over the place.”source ↗

“I have young kids and this back patio has basically been off limits unsupervised since we moved here.”source ↗

“A small area had a sand base, but the rest of the pavers were laid straight on to the dirt and filled in with cement or something.”source ↗

loafu · r/HomeMaintenance · 5 upvotes

“The deck is one of the main things we're needing to fix sooner than later.”source ↗

“there's this section in the middle that bends/bounces.”source ↗

“My brother got a quote for $6k for a whole deck replacement but it's a bit out of our budget atm.”source ↗

Shucklekip · r/HomeMaintenance · 1 upvotes

“We are thinking of buying a house and it has a patio with these pavers - maybe painted concrete? Not sure - also is there a fix for this?”source ↗

“Possibly the paint is worn off or flaking off? We cannot tell.”source ↗

SatisfactionOk201 · r/HomeMaintenance
r/HomeImprovement1 person · September 2026

“The mortar/grout/cement (not sure what’s right) in between our pavers is starting to crumble. I want to try to find a solution before the winter but not sure how to repair/what to use.”source ↗

Sir-TrollALot · r/HomeImprovement · 1 upvotes

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