Said It Here

Fired after trying to fix a dysfunctional workplace

Trying to reform broken processes or challenge corrupt vendor relationships often disrupts entrenched political dynamics, leading leadership to push out the incoming manager during probation. This makes it nearly impossible to implement necessary changes without being framed as a failure or getting terminated for not being a "good fit."

Overview
People affected5 accounts across 3 forums
Workarounds found7 items attempted
Community agreement406 total upvotes

What the numbers show

Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count

  • The most recent one is from October 2026.
  • This comes up 142.3× more often in r/ITManagers than across the site as a whole.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

Found another way around this?

Share your steps and trade-offs so fellow engineers don't have to reinvent the wheel. No account required.

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    Keeping your head down and doing recon for the first 30 days before making any changes
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    Letting dysfunctional elements or corrupt vendor relationships self-destruct rather than intervening
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  3. 3
    Leaving the job entirely when leadership resists actual reform
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  4. 4
    deciding to leave the organization and start anew
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  5. 5
    Ignoring early red flags to focus on skill development
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    Changing physical seating to create distance when boundaries are crossed
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  7. 7
    Finding coworker coverage for last-minute overtime demands
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/ITManagers3 people · December 2025

“Well, here I am. I made it to week #4 in my new role and was let go today. There was a 6-month probation period and they said that they felt I wasn't a good fit.”source ↗

trim_reaper · r/ITManagers · 357 upvotes

“My problems started with a vendor who was ripping us off. When I brought in a new vendor that I trusted, I was accused of showing preferential treatment in spite of saving $15k on a single order. That began my downfall.”source ↗

vrscdx14 · r/ITManagers · 13 upvotes

“My other I’m experiencing the same thing right now in my job so far I’ve survived two years but they have tried so to make me look like a failure on more than one occasion.”source ↗

BIG_SCIENCE · r/ITManagers · 5 upvotes
r/nonprofit1 person · October 2026

“what tends to happen after a while is that I think leaders take my energy as a personal attack and start to slowly ice me out.”source ↗

“And just like that, I have decided to leave my org and start anew thrice now.”source ↗

n0nepizza · r/nonprofit · 36 upvotes
r/careerguidance1 person · October 2026

“I feel as if he built a lot of resentment towards me after he shared his personal matters and I stopped reacting how he expected me to and set my boundaries.”source ↗

“I’m honestly devastated because I don’t have a job all of a sudden but I also feel like it’s for the best.”source ↗

“Any advice on what I should’ve done differently and how to navigate such bosses and are they common ?”source ↗

icouldntfind- · r/careerguidance · 1 upvotes

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