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Affordable bridesmaid gifts they will actually use

Bridesmaid gifts often cost hundreds of dollars on items that end up in the bin or charity shops, which feels wasteful when you are already covering their dresses, hair, and makeup. Because friends have very particular tastes, standard trinkets risk missing the mark and becoming clutter rather than meaningful keepsakes.

Overview
People affected10 accounts across 1 forum
Workarounds found22 items attempted
Community agreement13 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Buying consumable items like eye masks, foot masks, candles, and electrolyte packets.
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    Getting matching pajamas, face masks, candles, and sweets.
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    Gifting a bag with coordinating items such as a facial spray, lip gloss, perfume, face mask, tiara, and handheld fan.
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    buying personalized items like gift cards or birthstone jewelry
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    treating it like birthday present shopping with a personal friend budget
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    getting tailored items like nice lotions, favorite wine, or restaurant gift cards
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    Paying for bridesmaid expenses like hair, makeup, and hotel rooms instead of physical gifts
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    Including consumables, snacks, and a personal handwritten note
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    Giving gift cards for specific places like restaurants or coffee shops
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    Buying individual thoughtful gifts like regular birthday presents
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    Covering specific wedding-related expenses like hair, makeup, or dresses
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    Planning shared group experiences like a trip or pass instead of physical items
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    Buying compact mirrors with names and birth month flowers
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    Writing a thank you note and considering hair and makeup coverage as sufficient
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    Buying plain kraft boxes to paint or decorate yourself
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    Using alternative items like bouquets of flowers or gift cards instead of boxes
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    Giving items based on individual interests
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    Giving traditional thank you gifts at the rehearsal dinner
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    Avoiding items branded specifically with wedding details so they can be reworn
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    Buying pajamas, paying for hair and makeup, giving personalized totes, and making emergency kits
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    Providing glasses of bubbly on the wedding morning
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    Printing and framing professional photos after the wedding
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In their words

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r/weddingplanning10 people · September 2026

“I was wondering what to get them that doesn't cost hundreds as I'm covering their dress, hair & makeup.”source ↗

“some have very particular things they like and dislike, so I'm moving away from the idea.”source ↗

“is this a good present or will it all end up in the bin or a charity shop ?”source ↗

Miserable_Handle_104 · r/weddingplanning · 2 upvotes

“my friend group is generally pretty mindful about not wanting to accumulate junk, so I don’t wanna give them something for the sake of giving them something”source ↗

prednisoneprincess · r/weddingplanning · 2 upvotes

“My bridesmaids really went above and beyond for me over the past year. I wanted to get them something special but I wonder if they’d be disappointed.”source ↗

KnowledgeSmall · r/weddingplanning · 2 upvotes

“Do you have any recommendations for a small gift that I can personalize for each?”source ↗

17mangos · r/weddingplanning · 2 upvotes

“Hi I need opinions. Instead of the traditional bridesmaid box with all items people never actually use I got them each a comfrt set matching sweatpants and hoodies. Would you be happy receiving this as a gift or did I fuck up?”source ↗

ContextMajestic5452 · r/weddingplanning · 2 upvotes

“I don’t get the idea of spending hundreds of dollars on things they probably won’t use again either.”source ↗

Forsaken_Recover_633 · r/weddingplanning · 1 upvotes

“I personally hate bridesmaid gifts because even if it’s so cute and beautiful it is ultimately clutter that you don’t need.”source ↗

Feedtheflies · r/weddingplanning · 1 upvotes

“a visa card is just practical especially with all the travel costs you mentioned, shows you're thinking about their actual needs not just the photo op”source ↗

VastlyVivid · r/weddingplanning · 1 upvotes

“I want to give my bridesmaid's a gift but am wondering if it would feel bad if I got them a visa gift card instead.”source ↗

Feedtheflies · r/weddingplanning

“I cannot figure out what boxes to get and from where.”source ↗

“I can't seem to find boxes in a good colors or size for less than $10 each.”source ↗

“Shopping in stores seems to be impossible for price and the amount I need.”source ↗

swagmastertricycle · r/weddingplanning

“I am stressing I didn’t do enough!”source ↗

“Do I need to do more? Is this enough?”source ↗

Glittering_Pink_902 · r/weddingplanning

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