Affordable bridesmaid gifts they will actually use
Bridesmaid gifts often cost hundreds of dollars on items that end up in the bin or charity shops, which feels wasteful when you are already covering their dresses, hair, and makeup. Because friends have very particular tastes, standard trinkets risk missing the mark and becoming clutter rather than meaningful keepsakes.
What people tried
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- 1Buying consumable items like eye masks, foot masks, candles, and electrolyte packets.Did this help you?
- 2Getting matching pajamas, face masks, candles, and sweets.Did this help you?
- 3Gifting a bag with coordinating items such as a facial spray, lip gloss, perfume, face mask, tiara, and handheld fan.Did this help you?
- 4buying personalized items like gift cards or birthstone jewelryDid this help you?
- 5treating it like birthday present shopping with a personal friend budgetDid this help you?
- 6getting tailored items like nice lotions, favorite wine, or restaurant gift cardsDid this help you?
- 7Paying for bridesmaid expenses like hair, makeup, and hotel rooms instead of physical giftsDid this help you?
- 8Including consumables, snacks, and a personal handwritten noteDid this help you?
- 9Giving gift cards for specific places like restaurants or coffee shopsDid this help you?
- 10Buying individual thoughtful gifts like regular birthday presentsDid this help you?
- 11Covering specific wedding-related expenses like hair, makeup, or dressesDid this help you?
- 12Planning shared group experiences like a trip or pass instead of physical itemsDid this help you?
- 13Buying compact mirrors with names and birth month flowersDid this help you?
- 14Writing a thank you note and considering hair and makeup coverage as sufficientDid this help you?
- 15Buying plain kraft boxes to paint or decorate yourselfDid this help you?
- 16Using alternative items like bouquets of flowers or gift cards instead of boxesDid this help you?
- 17Giving items based on individual interestsDid this help you?
- 18Giving traditional thank you gifts at the rehearsal dinnerDid this help you?
- 19Avoiding items branded specifically with wedding details so they can be rewornDid this help you?
- 20Buying pajamas, paying for hair and makeup, giving personalized totes, and making emergency kitsDid this help you?
- 21Providing glasses of bubbly on the wedding morningDid this help you?
- 22Printing and framing professional photos after the weddingDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I was wondering what to get them that doesn't cost hundreds as I'm covering their dress, hair & makeup.”source ↗
“some have very particular things they like and dislike, so I'm moving away from the idea.”source ↗
“is this a good present or will it all end up in the bin or a charity shop ?”source ↗
“my friend group is generally pretty mindful about not wanting to accumulate junk, so I don’t wanna give them something for the sake of giving them something”source ↗
“My bridesmaids really went above and beyond for me over the past year. I wanted to get them something special but I wonder if they’d be disappointed.”source ↗
“Do you have any recommendations for a small gift that I can personalize for each?”source ↗
“Hi I need opinions. Instead of the traditional bridesmaid box with all items people never actually use I got them each a comfrt set matching sweatpants and hoodies. Would you be happy receiving this as a gift or did I fuck up?”source ↗
“I don’t get the idea of spending hundreds of dollars on things they probably won’t use again either.”source ↗
“I personally hate bridesmaid gifts because even if it’s so cute and beautiful it is ultimately clutter that you don’t need.”source ↗
“a visa card is just practical especially with all the travel costs you mentioned, shows you're thinking about their actual needs not just the photo op”source ↗
“I want to give my bridesmaid's a gift but am wondering if it would feel bad if I got them a visa gift card instead.”source ↗
Where this came up
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- 4Do I have to give a wedding gift if they didn't give us one?