Said It Here

Where should we stay on our wedding night?

Deciding whether to rent a hotel or Airbnb for just one night often conflicts with trying to save money and figuring out separate accommodations before the ceremony. Couples struggle to determine if paying for short-term lodging makes sense or if staying with family is a better option.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    Staying at parents' houses to save money
  2. 2
    Breaking tradition to stay together with family for the whole weekend
  3. 3
    Booking an Airbnb for several days
  4. 4
    Reserving a hotel block and staying in one of the rooms together

In their words

Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.

we are undecided about where to stay after the wedding. Does it even make sense to rent an airbnb/hotel for one night?source ↗

swoggym0ggi3 · r/weddingplanning · 3 upvotes

can the men and women stay together? Or should they get their own respective air bnb before the wedding? I know there’s no official rules or anything I’m just wondering the best way to do this while saving some money possibly?source ↗

69bigclitenergy69 · r/weddingplanning

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