Why does my dog turn into a terror the second someone gets home?
Dogs often undergo an overwhelming burst of excitement and behavioral chaos right when an owner returns home, driven by pent-up energy and high anticipation. This sudden shift leads to frantic behaviors like biting, barking, indoor accidents, and tormenting other pets, ultimately disrupting the household the moment work or an absence ends.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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- 1Giving the pet uninterrupted cuddling for a short period until it loses interestDid this help you?
- 2Waiting for the routine to sink in and the puppy to even out over timeDid this help you?
- 3Having the returning partner enforce the same rules rather than acting like a fun visitorDid this help you?
- 4Playing ball right when the partner gets home to burn off energyDid this help you?
- 5feeding the kitten more oftenDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“However, the minute my husband gets home he is completely different. He will not calm down even for one second, he keeps glued to my husband, he gets naughty with biting and barking which he doesn't do with me. And suddenly he has accidents, he doesn't give us any indication he needs to go, just goes where he feels like it.”source ↗
“He gets SO excited to see him when he comes home from work that he turns into the most naughty teenager pup. He gets mouthy and zooms and all of a sudden wants to disturb my old cat that he leaves alone all day long.”source ↗
“That's exactly the same thing that mine does. He is so gentle with our cats all day and when my husband is home he chases them and it does my head in.”source ↗
“She acts like this when I’m out of the house for three hours, but once she gets those 20 minutes of uninterrupted cuddling that she demands, she Fs off and does her own thing for a few hours”source ↗
“we took in 2 orphans and they would climb my leg the minute they heard the formula can open. it stung everytime i took a shower for weeks.”source ↗
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