Pet sitter neglected my animals while away
Paid sitters and friends often abandon basic animal care, stealing supplies and leaving pets in filthy, dangerously hot conditions without food. Returning to extreme temperatures and overwhelming waste distresses the animals and leaves owners dealing with the fallout of broken trust.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
Found another way around this?
Share your steps and trade-offs so fellow engineers don't have to reinvent the wheel. No account required.
- 1asking family members like brothers or stepmothers to watch pets insteadDid this help you?
- 2installing home cameras to check in on pets remotelyDid this help you?
- 3cutting ties or ghosting the unreliable friendDid this help you?
- 4Submitting applications to rescuesDid this help you?
- 5Ignoring the owner's messageDid this help you?
- 6Taking the cat inside or keeping itDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“We came home tonight, my home didn’t even smell like cats, if you’ve ever smelled tonsil stones, it smelled like that but…. Everywhere.”source ↗
“Our female cat hates all the animals and lives in the sunroom, we came home and it’s blazing hot in there…”source ↗
“Your friend stole the dogs food and didn’t go over to care for your animals once.”source ↗
“This cat has been coming to my house for over two weeks at all hours. He’s woken me up in the middle of the night meowing at my bedroom window.”source ↗
“He isn’t chipped or neutered and I really want to refrain from lecturing this person about cat overpopulation and how overworked shelters are”source ↗
“It took his owners a week to notice he had a paper collar on, or a week to message.”source ↗
Where this came up
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