Why are there so many school fundraisers right at the start of the year?
Constant school fundraiser requests force parents into the uncomfortable position of repeatedly soliciting friends and family or dealing with upset children who miss out on prizes. Because families are expected to ask for donations while also facing their own tight budgets, many parents simply refuse to participate to avoid stressing themselves and their kids.
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Why are there so many school fundraisers right at the start of the year?
- 1Choosing not to participate in the fundraisersDid this help you?
- 2Opting out of most or all fundraisers completelyDid this help you?
- 3Donating directly to the school, classroom, or teacher with personal money instead of soliciting othersDid this help you?
- 4Buying the fundraiser prizes (like stuffed animals or keychains) directly from a store for the child insteadDid this help you?
- 5Selecting only one preferred fundraiser per year to participate inDid this help you?
- 6Creating a Facebook page and messaging friends and familyDid this help you?
- 7Asking the school for alternative navigation or assistance fundsDid this help you?
In their words
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“So after asking all our family and friends to donate to the Fun Run, we’re now expected to go back and ask for more. The worst part is they explained it to the kids as “it’s super easy. All you have to do is have your parents do this thing and you’ll get this awesome stuffed animal!” So now I have a crying 6 year old who doesn’t understand why this puts us in a tough situation.”source ↗
“My kid just started KG and I’m already bombarded with amount of fund raisers and the school year just started. Is this how it’s going to be till they graduate high school?”source ↗
“I don't have the time or desire to solicit other people for donations. I donate what I feel comfortable donating myself, and then I tell my kid we can get whatever prize they've got their eye on from a store instead”source ↗
“I participate in zero fundraisers. I’m not stressing my self or my kid out.”source ↗
“Alot of the fundraisers are stupid so i dont do them. If it feels like it directly impacts the kids then i just donate but times are tough, im not asking friends and family who i know for a fact are struggling.”source ↗
“I don't solicit money from anyone. I give as much as I'm comfortable with and that's that.”source ↗
“The first prize tier requirement of $50 is still a bit steep for us. But I want to make my children happy and not feel so left out.”source ↗
Where this came up
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