Why can't I save any money despite a steady income?
Steadily earning money without building savings usually happens because unmonitored impulse spending, forgotten minor purchases, and sudden expenses quietly drain accounts faster than they can grow. This leaves people vulnerable to unexpected emergencies and feeling powerless to account for where years of income disappeared.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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- 1Reviewing bank and credit card transaction history retroactivelyDid this help you?
- 2Setting up automatic transfers to a savings account as soon as a paycheck arrivesDid this help you?
- 3Establishing a spending budget and tracking categoriesDid this help you?
- 4Setting up recurring automatic transfers to a high-yield savings account at a separate bank so the money is invisibleDid this help you?
- 5Using budgeting apps or manual spreadsheets to log every transaction immediately as it happensDid this help you?
- 6Switching back to cash and in-person purchases to make spending feel more tangibleDid this help you?
- 7Paying off buy-now-pay-later debt and stopping its useDid this help you?
- 8Setting up automatic transfers to a separate savings account on payday so money cannot be spentDid this help you?
- 9Writing down every single fixed expense and creating a small budget for recreational spendingDid this help you?
- 10Simulating future moving costs by putting aside mock rent and utility payments into a savings accountDid this help you?
- 11Transferring money back and forth between multiple accountsDid this help you?
- 12Using short-term CDs to lock money away so it cannot be spentDid this help you?
- 13Using Certificates of Deposits (CDs) to lock away cash and create barriers to spendingDid this help you?
- 14Setting up automatic transfers or direct payroll contributions to retirement and savings accountsDid this help you?
- 15Using high-yield savings accounts (HYSAs)Did this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I stink at saving. For example every time I try to build up my savings I blow it all impulse buying or something comes up.”source ↗
“Last year the most I had saved up was 2k and then I spent it on stuff I don’t even remember.”source ↗
“I’ve tried budgeting but it falls apart once I pay a bill or buy something since it’s not tracked immediately then the trackers get out of sync and don’t categorize my spending right and I cba to fix it.”source ↗
“If I had an emergency and it wasn’t near a payday I’d be cooked.”source ↗
“I have ADHD so I find myself struggling to hold onto money.”source ↗
“I struggle a lot because I’m unmediated and just need a little help, seeing it mapped out somehow?”source ↗
“I’m very ashamed of my impulses BUT I have been doing way better the last 2 weeks which is why I’m posting here.”source ↗
“Instead, I have nothing. Quite the opposite. I’m slightly in the red. I have no idea what all that money went toward.”source ↗
“I’m already numb from other experiences this year, but this was the last straw. It would have been easy to save half of it. That was so stupid.”source ↗
“I have been thinking, should I have 2 bank accounts? One for everyday expenses and one for saving exclusively for my uni fees? But I'm not sure. If I have a separate account with savings that are out of my sight, maybe I will be able to save properly and not spend.”source ↗
“Being a 21yr old dude, you can imagine that I really suck at saving. Like phenomenally bad.”source ↗
“My main issue is that I'm smart enough to get away with spending all my money, but not smart enough to stop.”source ↗
“I've worked a decent (in this economy) sales job for the past 2 years and have absolutely nada to show for it and I'm tired of it.”source ↗
“I find it difficult to save.”source ↗
“after normal expenses and saving $900 a month, I am left with no wiggle room.”source ↗
“I feel like its gotten tighter. How are you all surviving?”source ↗
“inflation has taken a real hit.”source ↗
“This year has been particularly hard. I owed $1,600 in taxes, moved (had to buy new furniture), had expenses after expenses come up.”source ↗
Where this came up
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