Fear of retaliation from admin for removing disruptive students
Administrators often discourage removing disruptive students and penalize teachers who try, using official policies like student removals as proof of poor performance. This creates a genuine fear that disciplining students will lead to negative evaluations, formal improvement plans, or non-renewal of contracts. Consequently, teachers feel forced to tolerate disruptions rather than risk their employment.
What people tried
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- 1Choosing not to use removal policies out of fear for contract renewalDid this help you?
- 2Writing repeated student referrals that are ignored by administrationDid this help you?
- 3Writing a referral to adminDid this help you?
- 4Sending the student out of the roomDid this help you?
- 5Assigning disciplinary writing assignments or apology lettersDid this help you?
- 6Refusing to allow the student back into the classroomDid this help you?
- 7Pressing charges if personal bodily harm occursDid this help you?
- 8Removing heavy or sharp objects like tape and staplers from the openDid this help you?
- 9Using pain stim toys to help with sensory seekingDid this help you?
- 10Taking students out of the room to walk a lap around the schoolDid this help you?
- 11Being firm and serious assuming the student knows the drillDid this help you?
- 12Telling the student to go to the office immediatelyDid this help you?
- 13Texting administration and keeping it moving if they do not arrive right awayDid this help you?
- 14Submitting reports directly through official district websites rather than emailing the principal.Did this help you?
- 15Sending follow-up emails 'clarifying' the policy to force a paper trail.Did this help you?
- 16Continuing to intentionally use the trigger words in emails to force administrative action.Did this help you?
- 17Forwarding documentation to the teachers' union or district ombudsman.Did this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“We got a 10 minute lecture on why we shouldn’t use the word ‘bully/ing’ in an email to admin because it send them into a 24 hour countdown to do something about it (aka them having to do their job in a timely manner), and that instead we need to talk to them in person, or use the word ‘teasing’.”source ↗
“A high school sophomore was popping his gum loudly over and over in addition to clicking something repeatedly (not sure what it even was). When asked to refrain from these activities, he gave me the nazi salute. Like 3 times. I told him that it was offensive to me yet it did it anyway twice more. How would you handle it?”source ↗
“I once used titled an email "Racist Bullying Allegation" and got a "reminder" from admin about how that word sets off a whole chain of things they have to legally do.”source ↗
“My admin is very anti-kicking kids out of class, even the super disruptive ones, and does little to nothing to intervene or provide support. So, this isn’t really as effective at my school.”source ↗
“I wouldn't trust my right to actually use this power for fear of it being thrown in my face when its time to renew my contract.”source ↗
“I genuinely feel unsafe at times when those students are alone in my care”source ↗
“Teacher moves to remove student from class; Admin immediately place teacher on a PDP and unsatisfactory evaluation; ... Teacher is non-renewed.”source ↗
“I used the term hate speech in an email about a students essay- and my admin said, maybe the child needed more support with essay writing.”source ↗
“Our admin literally said anyone who uses HB6 is essentially admitting to her that they can't do their job and refuse to educate students.”source ↗
“It's just what came out of my mouth at the time. Like I'm not perfect.”source ↗
“I’m honestly anxious about confronting him so I haven’t done it yet even though I know I have to.”source ↗
“I don’t know how to talk to my admin about this without revealing personal details.”source ↗
“Our admin always says call us anytime, but then they’re mia when there’s a real issue, and I’m worried about being able to confront this behavior right when it happens.”source ↗
Where this came up
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