Puppy terrified of being brushed and getting matted
A puppy's intense fear of brushes, scissors, and wipes prevents owners from touching sensitive areas like the neck, legs, and face. This terror, sometimes triggered by accidental pain when brushing out built-up food, makes the dog so uncooperative that they bark and nip just from being picked up. Consequently, the owner cannot groom the dog, leaving the hair badly matted.
What people tried
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- 1distracting feeding him hamburger while partner was doing the trimmingDid this help you?
- 2let him sniff it while you give treats without actually using it at firstDid this help you?
- 3left the brush near his bed for a couple days so it stops being this scary objectDid this help you?
- 4try those round tip ones made for dogsDid this help you?
- 5work in short sessions, like 2-3 minutes max before he gets overwhelmedDid this help you?
- 6take him to a groomer for a puppy sessionDid this help you?
- 7Giving a warm bath instead of brushing out dried messesDid this help you?
- 8Washing the affected area with water to avoid pulling hairDid this help you?
- 9Using grooming wipesDid this help you?
- 10Clipping the dog's hair short every few months to minimize the need for brushing altogetherDid this help you?
In their words
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“I have discovered he is scared of being brushed and haven’t been able to really touch him at all with it.”source ↗
“His hair is getting a little matted in places and needs his face trimmed but he reacted to the scissors the same way he did by trying to brush him.”source ↗
“I used to use wipes, but now she doesn't let me”source ↗
“Since I couldn't brush her neck for two days, the food built up, and I think I accidentally hurt her when I finally tried to brush it out.”source ↗
“Ever since that incident, she hasn't been cooperative and seems scared of us; she even barks and nips when we try to pick her up.”source ↗
“She allows me to brush her back, but she won't let me anywhere near her legs, neck, or mouth.”source ↗
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