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How to help a kid who hates middle school

Middle school days feel overwhelmingly long and exhausting for kids who are burnt out or miserable. Because attendance is mandatory, parents struggle to help them cope when they lack connection with peers outside of school.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    grabbing pizza when he gets picked up
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    spend more time watching movies together
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    let him have time to decompress and talk to friends on the phone for a little while
  4. 4
    play video games
  5. 5
    find other organizations religious or non religious where your child might be interested in making connections

In their words

Unedited, most upvoted first, each linked to the thread it came from.

He just hates how long the days feel.source ↗

Catdress92 · r/Parenting · 6 upvotes

I hated middle school, and it was tough, but I’m glad that I had a church youth group that provided some connection with other kids my age.source ↗

Top_Issue4421 · r/Parenting · 1 upvotes

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