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How to diet a cat when family members keep feeding them

When other household members continue to spoil pets with treats and outdoor access allows them to scavenge elsewhere, strict weight management becomes nearly impossible. This undermines attempts to address serious health concerns like asthma caused by excess weight.

Overview
People affected9 accounts across 1 forum
Workarounds found19 items attempted
Community agreement54 total upvotes

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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    Checking with a vet to assess weight
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    Visiting dedicated communities like r/dechonkers for weight loss guidance
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    consulting with a vet on how to get the cat healthy
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    doing research on how fat the cat should be
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    Putting the pet on a diet
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    running a series of medical tests checking the heart, kidneys, lungs, blood, and urine
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    changing the cat's diet to specialized renal food
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    switching to specific food flavors like fish to identify and avoid food allergies
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    Feeding high protein foods like boiled chicken, white fish, and chicken liver
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    Leaving dry food always available for snacking between meals
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    Switching back to kitten food
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    Taking the cat to the vet for a checkup
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    Giving treats frequently
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    Leaving out multiple pouches of food per day
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    Considering switching to a high-calorie senior wet food or boiled chicken
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    feeding only a measured portion of dry food once a day
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    looking into vet GLP-1 clinical trials
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    trying to play with the cat as much as possible to keep them active
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    using joint supplements like Solensia for mobility support
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/cats9 people · September 2026 – October 2026

“year after year during her vaccination appointment we noticed her losing weight at her vaccination appointments, on the 1st year appointment she was 2.7kg and the vet didnt suspect much but during the 2nd year appointment she was down to 1.7kg which shocked all of us.”source ↗

Fouladgar · r/cats · 32 upvotes

“Any ideas for a diet? Big baby is a Lil chunky.”source ↗

friendlyAirelemental · r/cats · 8 upvotes

“I feed him once a day, 1/2 a cup of dry food (hills science diet). He refuses to eat wet food and my vet recommended hills. He’s been eating this way for years and I don’t understand why he’s so fat. He doesn’t get into any food, never gets any treats, and likes to run around my house a lot.”source ↗

Froghh · r/cats · 7 upvotes

“The vet says he’s “fine”, but he was diagnosed with asthma 😐. I appreciate the link, I know he’s unhealthy Because of his weight but my mom keeps spoiling her cats with treats and It doesn’t help that all her cats are indoor / outdoor cats that eat all the food around the neighborhood.”source ↗

Mr-Peanut-butters · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“I myself have a cat who needs diet, and although I joke often about how round he is, big boned etc, but the most important thing is his health.”source ↗

DataPaws · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“We’re working on it 😩 she’s down 1.4 pounds”source ↗

Signal-Fact786 · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“he stops playing, even tho he eat a lot of treats but he wasn't gaining weight, he was so thin and it's scared me a lot”source ↗

“I'm scared if I wasn't giving him good food, or he was suffering from somthing inside.”source ↗

SHIN0X_offical · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“Hi, my 20 year old cat has been diagnosed with hyperthyroidism and is currently on medication and the medication is working on his thyroids however he is still not putting on weight and today he's now struggling to breath a little bit.”source ↗

“He eats treats when we give them him and he eats all then, but he does not eat all the cat food (whiskers) He goes up to the food have a little bit of it then runs away”source ↗

Quiet-Net7529 · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“I wasn’t very satisfied with the vets response, as they also said you should put him down that day as well. I wish they told me what heart condition though.”source ↗

Quiet-Net7529 · r/cats · 1 upvotes

“My cat is exactly the same - the vet thinks it’s her natural metabolism. I guess I don’t have great advice for you, as my cat is 15 and dieting has never helped!”source ↗

foisted76 · r/cats · 1 upvotes

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