How to handle a hyperaroused rescue puppy with kids
When a newly adopted puppy gets overly excited and mouthy around children, kids get bitten and everyday life turns chaotic. This constant hypervigilance and fear of injury leaves owners feeling guilty, overwhelmed, and exhausted.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
- 1Keeping children separated from the dog using baby gates
- 2Teaching the dog that hands near the face predict treats instead of pets
- 3Banning the dog from furniture like beds and couches to prevent resource guarding
- 4Weighing whether to rehome the dog as a longer-term behavior project
- 5trying to enforce daytime naps or crate time
- 6letting the puppy collapse under a chair to sleep
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“The challenge is that clearly the foster family only observed her in shelter shock (I now know four days is not enough time to know a dog). She gets very hyperaroused and extremely mouthy (most of the time the kids can’t even pet her).”source ↗
“That absolutely gutted me. I’ve already been having guilty thoughts about whether adopting her was a mistake because this has been so much harder than expected, while simultaneously loving her and feeling like giving her up would devastate our whole family.”source ↗
“I’m very hypervigilant about her potential for hurting the kids. People say she’s an adolescent and will get better… but I feel lost and confused and overwhelmed.”source ↗
“all hell breaks loose when my kids come home. It’s not them, it’s that the puppy so desperately wants to be with them, that everything unravels.”source ↗
“Then the land shark comes out. Kids are bitten. Tears flow.”source ↗
“the barking, biting and aggression towards the older springer are sapping my strength.”source ↗
Where this came up
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