How to handle puppy night potty breaks in a two story house
Puppies sleeping upstairs in a two-story home cannot reach the outside door in time to prevent overnight accidents, making bedroom sleeping risky. Without a properly managed crate or sleep routine, midnight potty breaks often trigger unwanted wake-ups and middle-of-the-night play sessions.
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- 1Sleeping downstairs on the couch near the exit doorDid this help you?
- 2Placing the crate in the bedroom next to the bedDid this help you?
- 3Carrying the puppy directly to the door for nighttime potty tripsDid this help you?
- 4Using washable pee blankets over comforters for bed-sharingDid this help you?
- 5Setting up a playpen or fenced area inside the bedroomDid this help you?
- 6Sleeping through the night and letting the puppy sleepDid this help you?
- 7Taking the puppy out for a bathroom break once during the nightDid this help you?
- 8Trying different crate setups like blankets, beds, mats, or nothing at allDid this help you?
- 9Taking the dog out before putting her in the crateDid this help you?
- 10Switching to a playpen instead of a crateDid this help you?
- 11taking turns sleeping on the couch downstairsDid this help you?
- 12letting the puppy cry a littleDid this help you?
- 13creating an apartment setup with a pen connected to the crateDid this help you?
- 14Shortening walk durationsDid this help you?
- 15Saving refused breakfast meals in the fridge until the puppy wakes upDid this help you?
- 16taking the puppy out to potty againDid this help you?
- 17sitting with the puppy on the sofa until fast asleep before transferring back to the crateDid this help you?
- 18braving it out through the fear periodDid this help you?
- 19Using a puppy play denDid this help you?
- 20Using a leash indoorsDid this help you?
- 21Puppy proofing an open concept main floor and using baby gatesDid this help you?
- 22allowing the puppy to roam a puppy-proofed roomDid this help you?
- 23letting the puppy sleep in the human bedDid this help you?
- 24having the puppy nap on the couch on a blanketDid this help you?
- 25using a place commandDid this help you?
- 26trying to build positive association with a crateDid this help you?
- 27training her for a few minutes and taking very short walksDid this help you?
- 28rewarding calm behavior with treatsDid this help you?
- 29considering using a penDid this help you?
- 30Switching from a crate to puppy pens for more spaceDid this help you?
- 31Using littermate-scented blankets and heartbeat toysDid this help you?
- 32Sitting near the puppy or reassuring themDid this help you?
- 33Taking the puppy out almost hourly throughout the night for potty breaksDid this help you?
- 34checking wiki articles or looking for specific management flairsDid this help you?
- 35Leaving puppy pads in the utility room for overnight useDid this help you?
- 36Taking young puppies out halfway through the night for a potty breakDid this help you?
- 37Relying on family members or romantic partners living in the same household to watch, walk, and care for the puppy during shift hours.Did this help you?
- 38Arranging remote work schedules (WFH) to handle daytime puppy supervision and allow for sleep.Did this help you?
- 39setting an alarm to wake the puppy up anyway out of concern for bladder capacityDid this help you?
- 40letting the puppy sleep until they wake up naturallyDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I’ve been setting an alarm for 6:30 anyway because I worry that she’s still young and shouldn’t be holding her bladder too long, but it feels ridiculous waking up a peacefully sleeping puppy who isn’t asking to go out!”source ↗
“Would you still wake a 14-week-old puppy for a morning potty break, or would you let them sleep until they wake up/ask to go out?”source ↗
“Our bedroom is upstairs but its not doable to have his kennel upstairs. We've been taking turns sleeping on the couch and our backs are feeling it.”source ↗
“Would love to transition her to sleeping upstairs with both of us in the bedroom, but concerned about overnight accidents with being upstairs in a two story house without being close to a door to the outside”source ↗
“We have not crated her overnight since she didn’t do very well with the crate but I’m not opposed to trying again.”source ↗
“I'm just wondering the 6hr naps are normal? She plays energetically, but doesn't eat breakfast (eats lunch and dinner). I just didn't expect this level of napping as she's supposed to be a high energy breed and in need of a lot of stimulation.”source ↗
“we’re having a really hard time with the settling/nighttime aspect and would really appreciate advice from people who have been through something similar.”source ↗
“we’re struggling with how intense this particular part has been. Not to mention, it’s causing stress on our other dog which I don’t want.”source ↗
“At night, when we put him in the bedroom playpen for bed and close the playpen door, he screams, cries, and has an extremely hard time calming down.”source ↗
“Hi! Wondering if anyone has any tips for night time house training?”source ↗
“The issue with him being so chill with us going to bed is that he doesn’t wake us to go to the bathroom, and instead just goes on his puppy pads.”source ↗
“I’m conflicted between waking up half way through the night to let him out, or just letting him sleep through.”source ↗
“Really struggling with our 12 week old English cocker spaniel.”source ↗
“Today I couldn’t watch him while I got my kids ready for school so I crated him and he lost his damn mind.”source ↗
“Do I set an alarm during the night to let him go potty? Do I wait until he cries?”source ↗
“Do you let the 8 week old puppy out to go potty every time it whines during the night?”source ↗
“If I take him to go potty during the night, he poops/pees. Then I take him back to his crate and he whines, what do I do?”source ↗
“Every night that I’m in the bed. Which is like 3/4 of the time . I don’t sleep a lot.”source ↗
“She waits a bit but will frequently wake up looking miserable to check on me? I feel so incredibly guilty when she stumbles in here half awake and stares at me (occasionally 20+ minutes) until I move.”source ↗
“Recently she stopped putting herself down for sleep and wanted to play around at 3am after she went to the bathroom so it was time to switch to crate training.”source ↗
“So, I shouldn't be worried, but I read almost everywhere that pups can't hold their pee for that long. Should I get up at night? Or am I doing okay?”source ↗
“However the past 5 nights when we put her in her crate she’s cried, we leave her for about 30 minutes to see if she settles but she never does so we take her out to potty again and put her back in, she’ll cry again and we would leave her 30 minutes until one of us eventually goes down and sits with her on the sofa until she’s fast asleep and transfer her back. She will then wake up at 1am and the entire process repeats itself. She will then wake up at 5am and refuse to sleep any further. We are exhausted.”source ↗
“I have an almost 10 week old long haired chihuahua who doesn't know how to settle down.”source ↗
“there seems to be no period of time between when she is awake and well behaved to her overtired state, she simply transitions from being awake to overtired.”source ↗
“She seems to get overtired in 10-15 minutes sometimes, half of which is spent coming up to me and sitting and me rewarding her for good behaviour.”source ↗
“How can I teach her to rest, I feel like it would feel punishing to essentially enforce sleep so often and within such short time of waking up.”source ↗
“I work the same thing, 3x 12 hour night shifts a week. I wouldn’t be able to do this without my partner living with me.”source ↗
“she still won’t hold her bladder in her crate she will hold it outside of her crate for hours and then tell us when she has to go”source ↗
“if we go somewhere or put her in her crate for bed she will immediately pee in there”source ↗
“every morning she’s covered in pee again”source ↗
“I can’t keep doing laundry 2 times a day for just her it’s getting to the point where I’m just throwing out everything that she pees on in her crate.”source ↗
“The thing I do want to change though is he sleeps in our bed at night and has done since basically day one. I do kind of love it but I want him to grow up to be an independent doggy.”source ↗
“He has taken a nap in his bed approx once for like 30 min, the rest of the time he naps on the couch on his blanket.”source ↗
“We have taught him place command but he doesn’t stay there for more than one second and I’m not sure how to make him settle in his bed and nap there.”source ↗
Where this came up
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