Why does my cat licking my head hurt?
Cat tongues have tiny, hook-like structures called papillae that act like a coarse hairbrush against sensitive human skin. This rough friction can cause scalp pain and irritation, leading owners to pull away from affectionate grooming.
What the numbers show
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What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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- 1Using bar soap on the headDid this help you?
- 2Using tea tree conditionerDid this help you?
- 3pulling the blanket from the cat's mouthDid this help you?
- 4Wearing a t-shirt as a barrier to ensure no deodorant residue gets on the catDid this help you?
- 5Cutting cat nails regularlyDid this help you?
- 6Trimming nails while the cat is suckling or making biscuitsDid this help you?
- 7Tapping or lifting paws and using a serious toneDid this help you?
- 8Putting the cat down or leaving when it gets too harshDid this help you?
- 9Scratching gently and sparinglyDid this help you?
- 10Avoiding scratching the sensitive areas too rough or oftenDid this help you?
- 11Washing the cat in the bathtub every couple of weeksDid this help you?
- 12Putting the cat on a diet to promote weight lossDid this help you?
- 13Frequent brushing to help manage the coatDid this help you?
- 14Adding salmon oil to food to improve skin, hair, and jointsDid this help you?
- 15Starting monthly arthritis injections to improve mobilityDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I’ve noticed over the last year or so her grooming skills are needing some work…it feels like her coat is a little oily on her back and when I brush her I notice some dander flakes.”source ↗
“Also, she has a hard time completely getting her behind clean :/”source ↗
“He gets overstimulated as soon as I start scratching his back. Should I stop doing it?”source ↗
“My scalp hurts haha”source ↗
“She does however like to lay on my side sometimes snuggling in my armpit.”source ↗
“But sometimes afterwards I can faintly smell my deodorant on her fur.”source ↗
“if I’m wearing a tank top my cat tries to lick my armpits while I sleep”source ↗
“I also trim my cats nails ... But sometimes my orange boy will get excited for something like opening a can and he'll stretch up my back leg then knead. That always reminds me to do a trim!”source ↗
“I’m worried he’ll get a blockage from lapping up the fuzz though.”source ↗
“Yes, but he acts that way no matter where on his back I scratch him. Anywhere from the neck down basically”source ↗
“Can't wait to see all the puncture wounds and scratches on the "cutting board" when she's done! 😂😂😂”source ↗