What people keep running into with perfectionism
Complaints tagged perfectionism, each raised by more than one person. One-off posts are not included.
3 recurring problems · 68 people · 4 forums we read
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- 52Why am I so tired and burnt out teaching?Constant exhaustion comes from a workspace where personal boundaries are routinely crossed, leaving educators overstimulated and physically drained by administrative pressures, classroom battles, and school politics. This chronic depletion drains all motivation, making it difficult to keep up with daily demands and forcing teachers to question why they stay in the profession.
- 13Why does my child shut down when they make a mistake?Children often become extremely upset and completely shut down when corrected or when they fail to do something perfectly, such as going outside the lines or making an error on homework. This intense reaction prevents them from continuing the activity or calmly accepting feedback, making everyday learning tasks a major struggle.
- 3Why am I obsessing over my wedding day regrets?The sudden shift when wedding planning ends causes your brain to over-analyze the event and nitpick insignificant details you cannot change. Seeing everyone around you get picture-perfect moments triggers grief over the messy blur of your actual day. This obsession over what-ifs keeps you sleepless and fretting instead of letting go of the wedding you originally pictured.
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