Why does my cat ignore the bed I bought?
Cats frequently reject store-bought beds because the materials, scents, or locations do not align with their natural preferences for security and warmth. This leaves owners wasting money on unused pet supplies while their cats opt to sleep in boxes, on furniture, or on human belongings instead.
What the numbers show
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What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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- 1Using the cat bed as a pillow for yourself to make the cat want itDid this help you?
- 2Moving the bed to a different room or floor workspaceDid this help you?
- 3Providing cardboard boxes instead of expensive cat furnitureDid this help you?
- 4Setting up a catioDid this help you?
- 5Waiting for the cat to adjust to the new space over timeDid this help you?
- 6Sprinkling catnip on the cat treeDid this help you?
- 7Moving the cat tree to a different location in the house away from windowsDid this help you?
- 8letting cats sleep on empty pizza boxes or alternative household itemsDid this help you?
- 9try using unscented or sleeping with them so they smell like youDid this help you?
- 10try free and clear detergent next timeDid this help you?
- 11putting a cardboard box next to the bed to see which one they chooseDid this help you?
- 12getting beds with fabric cubes and entry holes that mimic cavesDid this help you?
- 13trying pillow-type beds and tossing them casually so cats do not get suspiciousDid this help you?
- 14Letting cats sleep on regular human beds and couchesDid this help you?
- 15Using tiny floor mats or whatever cheap alternatives the cat happens to preferDid this help you?
- 16Tell the cats they are not allowed to sleep in or use the new item.Did this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“My cats would fight over that bed...”source ↗
“I have a big fluffy bed like that, two cats of my own, plus in the last while I have fostered five other cats, and not one of them has used it.”source ↗
“I bought a bed for Batista and he never paid any attention to it.”source ↗
“My cat refused to use the cat bed I bought her so I used it as a pillow for my head on the couch while loudly annoucing how much i loved MY new pillow”source ↗
“Bought my cat a cushion. She ignored it.”source ↗
“i washed both of his cat beds together and now he doesnt use them anymore?”source ↗
“He is a quiet guy who likes sleeping in tight and weird places like this 😄.”source ↗
“Leave it to my cats to not touch any of the nice beds I got them…”source ↗
“Well anyway he hates both of them, and my grandma gifted us a tiny little floor what I would barely call a bed it’s more of a mat that she bought for her kittens (my cat is 15 pounds) and he loves laying on it.”source ↗
“So yeah I just wasted all my money on nice beds for him… cause I thought he’d be uncomfortable in the garage.”source ↗
“40 dollars down the drain”source ↗
“I recently moved and for some reason after moving my cat will not use her tree anymore, she used to use it every day.”source ↗
“Does anyone know how to get her to use it again or why she stopped using it ?”source ↗
“You can spend a fortune on the nicest cat tree and they’ll still decide the random box is their new favorite spot”source ↗
“I bought my cat a really nice cat tree. He ripped the comfy top bed part off and its his favorite toy now. Tried putting it back on and he ripped it off again instantly.”source ↗
“Yes 😂 even in my cabinet”source ↗
“My two 9-months-old cats sometimes nap in the spaces of my bookshelf.”source ↗
“I have another one who sleeps on the top of the refrigerator 😂😂”source ↗
“My cat will not step in or use the hammock basket. Kinda hinders her, since it’s part of the sequence of jump spots.”source ↗
“i want to get one for my cats but i know as soon as i buy them something specifically for them to sleep in, they'll be like nah i like sleeping on empty pizza boxes more”source ↗
“I wish he felt that way about all the nice cat beds I got for him!”source ↗
“It just breaks my heart seeing them all huddled up in a corner as if I haven’t spent thousands on very nice things for them lmao”source ↗
Where this came up
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