Child loses interest in outside play quickly
Young children often become fussy after 30 to 45 minutes outside and retreat to a stroller, causing parents to fear they will never develop the fortitude for preschool or neighborhood play. Older children may abandon the playground and organized activities entirely, preferring to spend all day on their phones instead. This overall lack of activity leaves parents feeling overwhelmed and beating themselves up when comparing their kids to peers.
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Child loses interest in outside play quickly
- 1Putting the child in a strollerDid this help you?
- 2Carrying the child aroundDid this help you?
- 3Walking the stroller until the child falls asleepDid this help you?
- 4Locking out social media and internet browsers on the child's phone so it is less appealing.Did this help you?
- 5Accepting their withdrawal from organized sports and letting them hang out comfortably at home.Did this help you?
- 6Relying on after-school clubs to eliminate transportation and scheduling hurdles.Did this help you?
- 7Finding physical activities to do together alongside them.Did this help you?
In their words
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“My son is similar. Once he hit 12, he lost interest in doing organized activities. At first I beat myself up over it as I would hear other parents talking about all the things their kids do.”source ↗
“The playground is not longer an option and he is less excited about many things. He doesn't have a ton of friends so to keep him off his phone it's a lot of me trying to keep him active. If it were up to him he would be on his phone all day.”source ↗
“He doesnt want to do anything! It's kind of crushing. His dad isn't around and I just get overwhelmed with raising a young man.”source ↗
“but she’s not nearly as active as other kids her age.”source ↗
“After about 30-45 min she gets a little fussy and I pop her in the stroller and she’s all good or I carry her around a while. She has no interest in getting back out the stroller afterwards”source ↗
“My worry is that she will always resort to being pushed around after a short time and never develop the fortitude for outside play at preschool or kindergarten or just playing with neighborhood kids?”source ↗
Where this came up
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