Why do employees lack initiative and need constant hand-holding?
Managers get burnt out because staff constantly ping them with basic questions and ask for help resolving simple errors instead of thinking for themselves. This forces leaders to repeatedly check in and fix work, turning management into an exhausting cycle of repeating instructions.
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Why do employees lack initiative and need constant hand-holding?
- 1Making staff bring a proposed answer or solution with every questionDid this help you?
- 2Asking questions back to help them get to the answerDid this help you?
- 3Writing procedures, standards, and checklistsDid this help you?
- 4Keeping quiet and strictly executing assigned instructions without offering suggestions.Did this help you?
- 5Hiring a strategist, implementing accountability, and firing underperformersDid this help you?
- 6Interviewing new people, phasing out unproductive staff, and bringing in a stronger managerDid this help you?
- 7Hiring and empowering a second in command like a head of operations or chief of staffDid this help you?
- 8Using hands-on management and setting clear expectations rather than expecting young employees to be self-starters.Did this help you?
- 9Only promoting staff to leadership roles after directly observing their work ethic on the floor.Did this help you?
- 10Offering performance-based bonuses tied directly to hustle and good work, rather than increasing base pay.Did this help you?
- 11Using higher wages strictly to attract specialized skills (like line cooks) rather than hoping it will buy better general work ethic.Did this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I’m just so burnt out and tired of constantly needing to check in on people (because god forbid anyone takes any initiative), fixing their work, answering their stupid questions and repeating myself over and over and over again.”source ↗
“The ping wasn’t hey, it says this is retired so I’m going to delete it. And just letting me know. It was asking me to help resolve the error so that they can complete the form.”source ↗
“At some point, my bother started routinely picking up the slack and finishing up the job that is his employees’ responsibility!”source ↗
“Many times in the past I've suggested things and they're implemented and then something goes wrong and I get blamed, something goes right and people forget that I'm the one who suggested it.”source ↗
“Ugh this is actually where I have been for the past few months.”source ↗
“Nowadays, minimum wage is $18 and my high school employees work like I’m paying them $5/hour. Always calls in. My hostess doesn’t want to do a washroom check because it’s a “bussers job” but would stand at the host podium and do nothing.”source ↗
“I’ve paid two high school employees $20/hour because they worked at other restaurants but honestly they were even worst. Because they worked in the restaurant business they would “use the washroom” during peak time and be lazy.”source ↗
“People expect their employers to “take care of them” but the work has to be reciprocated. “Not my job” and “Can I be cut?” And “I didn’t want to come in today” sting a lot more when you’re a small business owner trying to provide for people and they don’t seem to appreciate it.”source ↗
“So yes, I pay above minimum, but it certainly doesn’t always buy you better work ethic. There is no correlation in my experience.”source ↗
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