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What to do if you get sick right before your wedding

Getting sick right before the wedding triggers deep conflict about whether to go ahead or reschedule. It robs you of the anticipated celebration experience, leaving you feeling like you are missing out on your own weekend.

Overview
People affected9 accounts across 1 forum
Workarounds found24 items attempted
Community agreement52 total upvotes

What the numbers show

Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count

  • People have been saying this in most months since September 2026.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

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Share your steps and trade-offs so fellow engineers don't have to reinvent the wheel. No account required.

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    Proceeding with the event while wearing masks and relying on flexible outdoor plans
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    going to urgent care
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    taking vitamin C, Airborne, or Emergen-C
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    drinking lots of water and fluids
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    getting rest and laying low
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    taking Real Sudafed, ibuprofen, and Tylenol
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    taking a Covid/flu combination at-home test
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    icing eyes
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    taking Benadryl
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    contacting a dermatologist for a topical cream
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    alerting the makeup artist
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    Taking Tamiflu
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    Drinking plenty of water and electrolyte drinks like Gatorade
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    Getting an IV treatment from a specialized clinic
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    Use whitening eye drops like Lumify
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    Apply a cold compress
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    Flush the eye with saline
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    Remove the lash extensions entirely
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    Avoid touching or rubbing the eye to prevent further damage
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    Taking prescription norethindrone short-term to delay the period
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    Using a menstrual cup or disc to prevent leaks and reduce cramps
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    Getting a hormonal IUD or vaginal ring well in advance
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    Scheduling the wedding date around a tracked menstrual cycle
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    Planning scheduled bathroom breaks with the wedding coordinator or bridesmaids
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/weddingplanning9 people · September 2026 – November 2026

“I really don’t wanna be dying from cramps and stressing about bleeding through my dress on my wedding day.”source ↗

“I’m aware I could try birth control pills but I’m scared that it’ll give me breakouts, which I’m already struggling with.”source ↗

dimmidummy · r/weddingplanning · 15 upvotes

“My period is very regular and it looks like I'll be on my period for my wedding. I'm thinking of asking my doctor if I can go on the progesterone only birth control pill for 1 month or even a few weeks to shift my cycles.”source ↗

doctorjazzyjazz · r/weddingplanning · 12 upvotes

“Now, with the wedding next Saturday, my fiancé and I both have influenza B!”source ↗

“There was so so much stuff I was stupidly saving for last minute and now I’m not even sure if I’ll be able to do it.”source ↗

“I am stressed. Beyond stressed.”source ↗

oystershell222 · r/weddingplanning · 6 upvotes

“HELPPP my wedding is Saturday, and I'm starting to not feel well I have some cold symptoms, but I fear they are going get worse due to my son being sick all last week with a high fever!”source ↗

Iamtotallystraight69 · r/weddingplanning · 5 upvotes

“I was spotting on my wedding day despite being regular AND on an IUD and not due yet, purely from the stress.”source ↗

pyjamayoghurt · r/weddingplanning · 4 upvotes

“I'm feeling very conflicted- honestly I just don't want to be sick for my own wedding weekend.”source ↗

“I feel like I'm losing out on the experience I wanted to have, and will continue to do so all weekend.”source ↗

believeinthetiger · r/weddingplanning · 3 upvotes

“My wedding is tomorrow and one of my eyes is bloodshot red after getting lash extensions, what can I do??”source ↗

DisciplineCute5492 · r/weddingplanning · 3 upvotes

“Getting on the pill to avoid it might be a bigger risk tbh, Ive tried multiple brands of the mini pill and the first month (for me) has always been very irregular bleeding/spotting and interesting hormonal fluctuations.”source ↗

fig-newton614 · r/weddingplanning · 3 upvotes

“My wedding is this Saturday and I’ve pushed passed the stressed out stage and am genuinely feeling peaceful and excited. HOWEVER, I got a lash tint/lift two days ago and my eyelids are very swollen. Has anyone experienced this and has any tips??”source ↗

“should I alert my make up artist now or wait to see if I can resolve it?”source ↗

Regular_Afternoon852 · r/weddingplanning · 1 upvotes

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