“I’m weirdly nervous about the getting ready process. We‘re both grooms and dont have super crazy outfits to put on and I have curly hair that always looks nice and my fiancé has a buzz cut so there’s no need to really have hair, there’s no makeup, so what are we supposed to do during that time besides be excited anxious together with our wedding party?”source ↗

“I can tell you right now your guests will likely be far too annoyed with the gap to make the venue change worth it.”source ↗

“i’ve been to many catholic church ceremonies where there’s a few hour gap. i’m not gonna lie, it’s a pain the ass and many people skip the ceremony.”source ↗

“Anytime I’ve had a gap like this in activities, it always causes my energy levels to plummet.”source ↗

“Speaking purely as a guest as I did not host a wedding like this, I would appreciate pointers on things to do in the meantime.”source ↗

“The only reason I’d be annoyed by that is if I had to get super dressed up and be expected to wander around in heels and have to worry about hair n makeup being ruined.”source ↗

“If the former, probably just about doable, the latter, as a guest I'd be tempted not to bother 😅”source ↗

“Extremely irritating. I would just get a venue that allows you to have a normal gap.”source ↗

“From a guest's perspective, this sounds annoying. I would not want to get ready for the wedding then just hang out in my wedding attire.”source ↗