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Dealing with unreasonable custom order requests

Sellers dealing with custom orders face endless, nitpicky modification requests from demanding buyers who become unreasonable and impossible to satisfy.

Overview
People affected4 accounts across 1 forum
Workarounds found4 items attempted
Community agreement1,079 total upvotes

What people tried

4 items

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    Canceling or refusing the order
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    Stopping custom work entirely and only selling ready-made items
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  3. 3
    Setting strict limits on the number of free revisions and charging for extra changes
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    Refusing to replicate previous work
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In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/Etsy4 people · January 2026

“He seems to want a factory made doll not a hand painted figure with realistic skin tones or imperfection only viewed through a magnifying glass. I want out.”source ↗

Busy-Education-4466 · r/Etsy · 694 upvotes

“She nitpicked them, didn't like the way the cat's tail was tilted .0000001 inch off the original.”source ↗

CricketMindless407 · r/Etsy · 192 upvotes

“This is the kind of nitpicking that made me stop doing custom orders all together.”source ↗

kariflack · r/Etsy · 164 upvotes

“I had to do like 15 modifications and he still wasn’t happy and kept asking for more and more.”source ↗

M8614 · r/Etsy · 32 upvotes

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