Said It Here

When does hiring a financial advisor actually make sense?

Deciding whether to hire an advisor comes down to figuring out if the professional fees are justified by a meaningful benefit over DIY investing. People struggle to know at what portfolio size professional management becomes worthwhile or what specific type of expert they need when life circumstances change.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    Managing investments independently as a DIY investor
  2. 2
    Using a robo-advisor for lower-cost automated management
  3. 3
    Consulting a fee-only, fiduciary financial planner for a one-time sanity check
  4. 4
    consulting an attorney or mediator for a post-nuptial agreement
  5. 5
    working with a marriage counselor or financial therapist
  6. 6
    hiring a fee-only certified financial planner who offers hourly planning
  7. 7
    discussing and negotiating a joint budget or single-pot money system directly with the spouse

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/personalfinance2 people · September 2026

“My husband thinks I should have a financial advisor manage my investments, and I’m trying to figure out whether the benefit would actually justify the cost.”source ↗

“For those who use an advisor (or switched from DIY investing to an advisor), did you actually see a meaningful benefit?”source ↗

“At what portfolio size you think professional management starts making sense?”source ↗

Brittney12217 · r/personalfinance · 23 upvotes

“I'm looking for someone to coach or advise me (on my own, but not secretly; he's aware but equally clueless on what to do) about how to manage our household contributions moving forward now that our circumstances have changed in a way that makes me vulnerable.”source ↗

“Please help me figure out the job title for the sort of person I need?”source ↗

Hot-Syrup-505 · r/personalfinance · 2 upvotes

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