How to talk to kids about trusting the police
Parents must walk a fine line between keeping young children safe from dangerous adults and addressing authority figures like law enforcement. This difficulty leaves parents unsure how to navigate discussions about authority without knowing who to trust or how to keep their little ones safe.
What people tried
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- 1Instructing children to treat strangers in uniform with suspicionDid this help you?
- 2Telling children not to speak to police without a lawyer or parent presentDid this help you?
- 3Teaching children to look for alternative safe adults like store employees or female staff if lostDid this help you?
In their words
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“My question for the group is, how do you talk to your child about trusting or distrusting law enforcement or any individuals posed as leaders?”source ↗
“As a mom, I so just want to keep my little ones safe and I don't know how to navigate this all.”source ↗
“It’s a really fine line to walk with talking to your kids about any adult who could be dangerous and in a position of authority.”source ↗
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