Said It Here

Why do recruiters ghost and waste time during a job search?

Job seekers face unprofessional behavior like ghosting after weeks of preparation, unfulfilled outreach, and insulting demands such as working interviews for senior roles. This constant silence and lack of follow-through leaves candidates feeling ignored and makes the hiring process feel like screaming into the void.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    declining working interviews
  2. 2
    offering a 4-day coverage arrangement
  3. 3
    pivoting to recruiting or building a coaching business
  4. 4
    Ask recruiters for a specific role, salary range, and hiring timeline before sharing updated details.
  5. 5
    Block recruitment agencies aggressively and route all hiring through internal company HR departments.

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/humanresources2 people · September 2026

“I declined that as I find it insulting and offensive.”source ↗

Useful-Lobster521 · r/humanresources · 5 upvotes

“the ghosting after interviews is the worst part though. spent months tailoring resumes and prepping just to get silence. feels like screaming into the void most days”source ↗

RudeDigger · r/humanresources · 1 upvotes
r/Netsuite2 people · September 2026

“Has anyone had good experience with Anderson Frank and actually got hired? Based on my experience, they just keep on asking for my experience/info every other year or so and then nothing. I maybe just got 1 interview within 10 years”source ↗

shitogeme · r/Netsuite · 1 upvotes

“Yeah I got approached by them but it was just sone kid scouting for them and it was not very professional and nothing became of it.”source ↗

Kiki_Very_Broke77 · r/Netsuite · 1 upvotes

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