What happens if you don't hit your wedding venue minimum?
When guest count or spending falls short of a venue contract minimum, couples face panic-driven pressure to invite unwanted guests just to hit the required threshold. However, some venues allow couples to make up the difference by adding extra items to their package.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
Found another way around this?
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- 1Paying a partial plate fee for the missing guestsDid this help you?
- 2Adding menu upgrades, extra appetizers, or late-night snacks to meet the minimum spendDid this help you?
- 3Inviting acquaintances or people you do not actually want there just to hit the numbersDid this help you?
- 4Using draping or partitions to section off a smaller space within a large venueDid this help you?
- 5Placing tables further apart to fill up the roomDid this help you?
- 6Creating a separate lounge area away from the dance floorDid this help you?
- 7Shifting expectations from a dance club vibe to a low-key dinner partyDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“So our venue has a minimum of 150 people for our Saturday date and with all our declines (so far) we are projecting at about 138.”source ↗
“My parents are panicking and trying to invite folks that we don’t necessarily want at the wedding so that we hit our 150% minimum”source ↗
“I’m having a destination wedding in a couple of weeks and I’m starting to get really nervous about how small our wedding is going to be.”source ↗
“A few people have also canceled pretty last minute after already RSVP’ing yes.”source ↗
“It’s been really hard seeing him so disappointed. On top of that, our reception space can accommodate up to 200 people, so now I’m overthinking how 30 guests will feel in such a large space.”source ↗
“I’m scared it’s going to look empty, that no one will dance, or that the reception won’t have the energy we imagined.”source ↗
“We were under our minimum spend amount (we had way less guests than anticipated) and our venue let us add items.”source ↗
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