Husband keeps weed whacking my garden plants
Well-meaning husbands and friends often mistake intentional garden plants for weeds and accidentally destroy them by digging them up or using a weed eater. This wipes out new additions, growing asparagus, and incoming blooms like irises and clematis, leaving the gardener devastated.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
Found another way around this?
Share your steps and trade-offs so fellow engineers don't have to reinvent the wheel. No account required.
- 1Putting physical cages around small or newly planted plants to protect them.Did this help you?
- 2Giving partners a guided walkthrough of the yard before they mow or weed.Did this help you?
- 3Banning the use of weed eaters near garden beds.Did this help you?
- 4Buying replacement plants as reparations.Did this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I had friends who moved into our house and dug up my asparagus plants when they were bolting thinking they were weeds.”source ↗
“My husband weed whacked a new plant last year and I was devastated.”source ↗
“One day my husband was trying to teach me how to use the weed eater and mowed them all down in one swipe.”source ↗
“My husband cut down the clematis that blooms on old growth at our new house 😭 every spring I remind him.”source ↗
“after he took the weed eater to entire row of bearded iris right before blooms, I almost took the weed eater to him.”source ↗
Where this came up
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