Why is it impossible to keep up with everything on my plate?
Constant administrative demands, changing rules, and an endless stream of tasks make it impossible to stay caught up, leading to physical exhaustion and dropped responsibilities. When daily interruptions and endless tracking dominate the schedule, there is no time left for meaningful work or basic recovery.
What the numbers show
Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count
- The most recent one is from October 2026.
- This comes up 47.2× more often in r/PropertyManagement than across the site as a whole.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
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Why is it impossible to keep up with everything on my plate?
- 1Prioritizing tasks using a triage system based on urgencyDid this help you?
- 2Delegating, combining, or automating tasks to build scalable workflowsDid this help you?
- 3Guarding personal time to prevent burnoutDid this help you?
- 4asking people for help or adviceDid this help you?
- 5reworking canned curriculum at nightDid this help you?
- 6setting time limit boundaries for thingsDid this help you?
- 7stopping or dropping some of the extra commitmentsDid this help you?
- 8making life about oneselfDid this help you?
- 9proposing a division of responsibilities to managers and leadershipDid this help you?
- 10using automated scheduling features in applicant tracking systemsDid this help you?
- 11setting boundaries around office interruptions and focusing for longer periodsDid this help you?
- 12Skipping lunch breaks entirely just to keep up with the daily tasks.Did this help you?
- 13Quitting the position out of sheer exhaustion without a backup plan.Did this help you?
- 14Taking several months off work to mentally detox from the toxic environment.Did this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“My planning keeps getting taken away by nonsense that doesn’t help me or the kids. The IC is driving me insane. There’s not enough time to do what they want me to do.”source ↗
“My health is starting to be affected.”source ↗
“I am 25F, in my second year of teaching first grade at a public school full time, and that alone is making me feel exhausted.”source ↗
“On top of that, I am in grad school and taking two classes this semester.”source ↗
“And on top of that, I teach kindergarten at a Sunday school (Jewish school).”source ↗
“This Saturday I have a craft fair because I also sell crochet plushies.”source ↗
“My next full day off is not for another week and a half. I am exhausted. I am running on energy drinks.”source ↗
“Larger classroom sizes, more adherence to whatever school/district state mandates are out. Emails. Grading. Planning. Ya, there's no way to keep up. As soon as I catch up, I'm behind again the next day.”source ↗
“I'm exhausted and it's only day 14”source ↗
“I feel like I’m doing 2-3 jobs into 1. It’s not sustainable, I’m making mistakes and errors when it comes to reporting.”source ↗
“Only reason I was able to get the numbers that I did was No lunch breaks, pretty much non existent with all the work you have to do”source ↗
“What’s a lunch break?”source ↗
“This was me a year ago. I quit. I’m not sure what I’m going to do next but I’ll make sure that nothing ever makes me feel that way again.”source ↗
“Last time this happened, had to detox from march to June”source ↗
“I especially love it when they’re doing a site visit and see an angry resident and run away instead of helping.”source ↗
“I am having a hard time trying to balance everything I need to do. And it’s really because of the department managers. They constantly bombard me in my office when I’m trying to get done work.”source ↗
“Besides that, they tend to rely on me to do a lot of things they can do themselves. For example, we were just recently hiring for 2-3 different positions and we use Indeed. They all have the proper access to Indeed, and yet I have to do all of the messaging candidates, then coordinating interviews, and then scheduling the interviews on their calendars for them.”source ↗
“This has gotten very overwhelming due to the volume of applicants we have received for each job.”source ↗
Where this came up
People with this problem also raised
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- 6Why does running a small business feel like drowning in software tools?
- 11Why does home maintenance feel like a never-ending job?
- 5How to delegate repetitive tasks without giving too much system access