Why am I so terrified right before my wedding?

“The wedding is less than 5 days away, I feel like not everything is set in stone.”source ↗

“Honestly it’s just a lot and I wish I would have kept my foot down and eloped.”source ↗

“everyone says this is supposed to be like the happiest week of my life and it’s kind of torturous.”source ↗

“the wedding nightmares are intense!”source ↗

“for the last 6 weeks or so, I’ve been having “nightmares” about ALL the things.”source ↗

“Then, they turned into the wedding suddenly being here and our planning only being what we’ve done up until this point (missing like 1/2 our vendors??).”source ↗

“As the title says, I feel extremely stressed out and unhappy. My bridal party has caused me so much stress and drama, and on top of that I’m nervous that everything will not go smoothly as well as walking down the aisle.”source ↗

“I'm feeling increasingly overwhelmed by all the little things I'm apparently supposed to think about — the photographs, walking down the aisle, choosing the "right but also unique and original" song, making sure everyone has a good time, making sure everything looks good, etc.”source ↗

“Suddenly I'm very aware of how everything is supposed to look, how I'm supposed to pose, what I'm supposed to do, etc.”source ↗

“I think that's what scares me most: spending the day thinking about where to put my hands, how to stand, when to smile, how to kiss, whether I'm holding my bouquet correctly... instead of just being there and enjoying what's happening.”source ↗

“My wedding is in 16 days and most things are well in hand. Planning has been smooth, we're basically in budget, my fiance and I are closer than we've ever been. And yet: I am so terrified that people aren't going to have fun!”source ↗

“We are 14 days to the wedding and I’m stressing the fuck out.”source ↗

“I had a whole mental breakdown and cried about getting married.”source ↗

“I love my fiancé and I’ve loved this “era” that I’m in, but I am terrified of the next step.”source ↗

“My wedding is tomorrow and I’m so so nervous 😥 , I’m anxious about everything and I feel like the whole day will go wrong.”source ↗

“Less than 30 days out and I feel like I’m forgetting things”source ↗

“Big things are taken care of but can anyone recommend some last-minute or day-of loose ends to consider tying?”source ↗

“I can’t wait to marry my fiancé and I know the event will be wonderful but we’re exhausted, stressed out and unable to relax and savor the final week.”source ↗

“I want to stop feeling dread and start feeling excitement.”source ↗

“Now that its fast approaching I'm wondering what are the small details I should be thinking about/prepping for?”source ↗

“And what are things often forgotten that I should do/bring?”source ↗

“I’m a A person and idk what I’m doing here I’m anxious about missing something any advice or tips ??”source ↗

“I was a very type A bride and I got overwhelmed early in the day.”source ↗

“Honestly I felt the same way. Looking back I wished we would have eloped.”source ↗

“Most stressful week… i barely slept the three nights before the wedding as well. I was in tears three times the day before.”source ↗

“I am in the exact same boat, with the same wedding date (10/10!) and I keep spiraling over whether tiny little things will cause my guests to raise an eyebrow, and then crashing out imagining it.”source ↗

“I keep both falling asleep and waking up completely anxious every day haha.”source ↗

“Mine is less about the guests and more just in general of the day going well. Its my first marriage so just feeling some jitters about it being such a big step!”source ↗

“anxiously waiting worrying about all the possible things that could go wrong 🫠 but ready to go!”source ↗

“I tried on my wedding dress earlier and started feeling SO nervous. Idk if it’s trauma (lol a bit dramatic I know) because photos and capturing moments is everything to me and I’m scared that my nervousness will show again in the photos. :(”source ↗