What workarounds did people try for "How to get a toddler to sleep alone without hours of bedtime battles"?

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Community members documented 33 workarounds:
1. Leaving the room briefly and returning after a little bit, increasing the time away over several nights
2. Sitting in a chair in the room and gradually moving it further away from the bed each night
3. Asking the child why they are afraid
4. Establishing regular evening rituals like reading a book and giving a goodnight hug
5. Using praise, encouragement, reward charts, or challenges for sleeping alone
6. Sitting with the child until they fall asleep and then sneaking out
7. Using a timer method to gradually space apart check-ins
8. Using nightlights or monster spray to address fears
9. Staying in the child's room until they fall asleep, resulting in lengthy two-hour bedtimes.
10. Staying in the child's room for an hour to an hour and a half until they fall asleep
11. Using a bedtime routine involving games, stories, a nightlight, and a story box
12. Returning to the room to stay until the child falls back asleep if they wake up and find the parent gone
13. Laying with the child in bed until they fall asleep
14. Co-sleeping or setting up a pallet on the bedroom floor for the child
15. Using 'monster spray' or room spray to clear the room
16. Giving the child protective objects like a special toy, glow-in-the-dark bracelet, or guard-duty stuffed animals
17. Sleeping in the same bed with the children
18. Putting children in a bed together and gradually phasing out parental presence
19. Transitioning children to shared rooms or pushing twin beds together
20. Continuing to cosleep and nurse to sleep until the child naturally grows out of it
21. Using a floor bed in the child's room and having a parent sleep on a separate mattress nearby to ease the transition
22. Nightweaning while continuing to cosleep
23. Gradually increasing intervals of leaving the room and returning to check in
24. Using specific bedtime warnings and consistent tuck-in routines with stuffed animals
25. Singing a final goodnight song as a cue that the parent is leaving
26. Roleplaying sleep routines with dolls or stuffies during the day
27. Providing a special bedtime-only stuffed animal scented with the parent
28. laying with the toddler on a floor bed to help them fall asleep
29. Full-on laying down and cuddling the child until they fall asleep
30. Allowing the child to get into the parents' bed in the middle of the night
31. Using a reward system like a treasure box after consecutive days of independent sleep
32. Sitting in a chair in the room as a transitional step instead of laying next to them
33. Putting a twin mattress on the floor next to the parents' bed for the child to use

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