Said It Here

Wedding website with a single RSVP for all events

Wedding website platforms often force guests to RSVP separately for individual events like the ceremony and reception, causing confusion when guests accidentally RSVP for just one part. Couples want a simple way for guests to give a single yes or no for the whole wedding, or use phone numbers to direct them straight to the right events.

What people tried

Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.

  1. 1
    Combining multiple timeline segments into a single catch-all event like 'Wedding Ceremony & Reception' and listing the detailed schedule in the description text.
  2. 2
    Creating separate events but disabling RSVP collection for the parts that do not require individual headcounts.
  3. 3
    Going into each individual site to see specific event details

In their words

Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.

r/weddingplanning3 people · September 2026 – October 2026

“I really only want them to RSVP as "yes" or "no" for the wedding altogether.”source ↗

“I don't want people to think they can RSVP that they are coming to the reception but not the ceremony.”source ↗

dontfukcignlookatme · r/weddingplanning · 1 upvotes

“I had a couple guests be confused as they still pop for them when they RSVP”source ↗

thunder_bug · r/weddingplanning · 1 upvotes

“Looking for a wedding website that can be guest specific and could use something like a guests phone number to direct them to the events for them?”source ↗

Wild_Coffeebean · r/weddingplanning · 1 upvotes

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