How to recover from severe travel burnout and flight dread
Physical exhaustion and mental fatigue from back-to-back trips can leave you completely unable to plan new itineraries or face stepping onto an airplane. Pushing through this exhaustion causes deep dread toward flying, making it impossible to enjoy future trips or even handle flights over ten hours without severe strain.
What the numbers show
Counted from the threads quoted below. How we count
- Most of it landed at once — the busiest month was September 2026, with 12 people.
- This comes up 23.5× more often in r/travel than across the site as a whole.
What people tried
Every workaround mentioned in the threads below. We haven’t tested any of them — and nobody here is claiming they worked.
Found another way around this?
Share your steps and trade-offs so fellow engineers don't have to reinvent the wheel. No account required.
- 1Taking a break and stopping travel until the desire returnsDid this help you?
- 2Copying other people's itineraries to avoid planning fatigueDid this help you?
- 3Doing yoga retreats or staycationsDid this help you?
- 4Acting like a tourist locally within a 2-hour driving radiusDid this help you?
- 5Staying in the hotel for days doing nothing to restDid this help you?
- 6Transitioning to slow travel by staying in only 1-2 cities maxDid this help you?
- 7Trying the Argonne Antijetlag Diet or fasting 15 hours before waking timeDid this help you?
- 8Taking melatonin, magnesium, benadryl, or unisomDid this help you?
- 9Using time-adjustment mobile apps like TimeshifterDid this help you?
- 10Forcing early morning sunlight exposure and keeping rooms coolDid this help you?
- 11Getting out of bed to read, journal, or listen to a podcast when unable to sleepDid this help you?
- 12taking medical leave or FMLADid this help you?
- 13starting anti-depressant medicationDid this help you?
- 14talking to a doctor or holistic psychologistDid this help you?
- 15quiet quitting and reducing daily effortDid this help you?
- 16searching for a job at a different company with better boundariesDid this help you?
- 17continuing to travel and never go homeDid this help you?
- 18having another trip or event to look forward toDid this help you?
- 19starting to plan and save money for the next tripDid this help you?
- 20retirementDid this help you?
- 21Taking time off to do nothingDid this help you?
- 22Engaging in non-screen-based hobbiesDid this help you?
- 23Setting strict boundaries on working hours and removing work email from personal devicesDid this help you?
- 24taking medical leave or being signed off for stressDid this help you?
- 25leaving the job or looking for another positionDid this help you?
- 26Taking proactive mental health days during months with no scheduled holidaysDid this help you?
In their words
Unedited, grouped by where they were said, most upvoted first within each place, each linked to the thread it came from.
“I can’t stop having severe panic and crying from burnout.”source ↗
“Everything is so robotic and numb. I want to be me again. How would you step away from this ?”source ↗
“I want to quit right away because there’s no end in sight. But theres a mental block stopping me from doing that.”source ↗
“It's funny how during the days off, time literally flies like a super sonic. Like slow down! During the school days, time moves in agony, slow as molasses!”source ↗
“Weekends feel like a 30 minute lunch break.”source ↗
“The absolute worst. Even prep flies by.”source ↗
“I try to live that way but sometimes even I sacrifice my mental health for this job. I think that's part of it, unfortunately, and wish it wasn't!”source ↗
“We don't get veterans day off either. Federal holidays are not automatic school holidays in NJ public schools! 0 days off in October.”source ↗
“I'm really feeling it after coming back from NY.”source ↗
“I knew it was temporary and I soaked it all in but I still feel that depression.”source ↗
“Its just tough to feel like I'm mourning right now.”source ↗
“this last trip was just exhausting - constant driving, followed by a several hours flight which was painful to sit for longer than an hour.”source ↗
“I’d like to hear thoughts from others who’ve had a similar burnout and if you eventually overcame this after taking a break? I dread getting on a plane again.”source ↗
“I always (and I mean always) wake up at approx 3am the second, third and sometimes fourth night and my body will absolutely refuse to let me fall back asleep again until 6:30/7am.”source ↗
“Reading this at 4am on my third night back from Canada to Europe 😭 I'm so tired of this. waking up at 3:00 staying awake until 6 then feeling sleepy all day.”source ↗
“I had 1-2 years where I had such travel fatigue that even tho I wanted to travel I could not make an itinerary to save my life”source ↗
“When I finally get home I'm usually so exhausted and tired of flying that I tell myself I'll stay home the next vacation opportunity I have.”source ↗
“I was anticipating it but its just a strange feeling when I come home, its slower, no sight seeing, lack of novelty, and stimulation from being out all day.”source ↗
“The crash is pretty hard.”source ↗
“My last international trip (Nov-Dec '25) had terrible layovers and that put me off from flying anywhere for "a long time".”source ↗
“Went to several Asian countries and after the 8th country I was tired. Still happy I was visiting but just physically and mentally tired.”source ↗
“I can’t handle flights over 10 hours for this reason. I also stay in 1-2 cities at max now and I can’t hop around so different areas like I used to.”source ↗
“First night after arriving, slept like 9 hours, 2nd night I was sure all was good, took my melatonin and magnesium before bed and then proceeded to just sleep in 20 minute power naps totally to around 2hrs in total”source ↗
“Every time, like clockwork, no matter what I did. The 2nd night was the hard one, and I didn’t always get ideal sleep on that night even if I followed the same protocol.”source ↗
“I need help, around a year ago i got signed off for burnout for 3 days which was insufficient.”source ↗
“After a further 6 months i got signed off for stress for 2 months but ended up leaving within a month after returning.”source ↗
“I'm now at the point where all joy has been taken from my job and wondering how other people dealt with being signed off through stress?”source ↗
“for further information, i used to work 70+ hour weeks keeping everything in check and frequently went months without leave that led to being signed off.”source ↗
Where this came up
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